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PETITIONER:
LACHMAN UTAMCHAND KIRIPLANI
Vs.
RESPONDENT:
MEENA alias MOTA
DATE OF JUDGMENT:
14/08/1963
BENCH:
AYYANGAR, N. RAJAGOPALA
BENCH:
AYYANGAR, N. RAJAGOPALA
SINHA, BHUVNESHWAR P.(CJ)
DAS, SUDHI RANJAN (CJ)
SUBBARAO, K.
DAYAL, RAGHUBAR
CITATION:
1964 AIR 40 1964 SCR (4) 331
CITATOR INFO :
R 1972 SC 459 (5)
ACT:
Husband and wife-judicial separation-Desertion without just-
cause-offer to return to matrimonial home must be shown to
be bona fide-Petition for judicial separation-Burden of
proof-Hindx Marriage Act, 1955 (25 of 1955), s. 10(1)(a).
HEADNOTE:
Where an application is made under s. 10(1)(a) of the Hindu
Marriage Act, 1955, for a decree for judicial separation on
the ground of desertion, the legal burden is upon the
petitioning spouse to establish by convincing evidence
beyond any reasonable doubt that the respondent
intentionally forsook and abandoned him or her without
reasonable cause. The petitioner must also prove that there
was desertion throughout the statutory period and there was
no bona fide attempt on the respondent’s part to return to
the matrimonial home and that the petitioner did not by his
or her action by word or conduct provide a just cause to the
other spouse to desist from, making any attempt at
reconciliation or resuming cohabitation; -but where,
however, on the facts it is clear that the conduct of the
deserted spouse has had no such effect on the mind of the
deserting spouse there is no rule of law that desertion ter-
minates by reason of the conduct of the deserted spouse.
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An offer to return to the matrimonial home after sometime,
though desertion had started, if genuine and sincere and
represented his or her true feelings and intention, would
bring to an end the desertion because thereafter the animus
deserendi would be’ lacking, though the factum of separation
might continue; but on the other hand, if the offer was not
sincere and there was in reality no intention to return, the
mere fact that letters were written expressing such an
intention would not interrupt the desertion from continuing.
Bipin Chander laisinghbhai Shah v. Prabhawati, [1956] S.C.R,
838, Dunn v. Dunn, [1948] 2 All E.R. 822 and Brewer v.
Brewer [1961] 3 All E.R. 957, relied on.
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The parties were married in 1946 at Hyderabad in Sind (now
in Pakistan) and a child, a son, was born in 1947. The
married life of the couple was not as harmonious as it
should have been and it soon transpired that much of the
trouble arose out of the fact that while the appellant and
his parents appear to have been of an orthodox and
conservative outlook and bent of mind the respondent and her
parents apparently did not set much store by orthodoxy and
were liberal and modern. As a result of the partition in
1947 the parties had to leave Sind. The appellant and his
parents stayed in a house in Bombay, while the respondent’s
parents went to Poona. The appellant’s complaint was that
the respondent was frequently going away to her parent’s
house. On February 26, 1954, the respondent left’ the
appellant’s house and went to Poona. The evidence was
conflicting as to whether she obtained the permission of the
appellant ’before going to Poona, but the facts showed that
after that date the respondent did not go back to the
appellant’s house. The appellant along with a friend, Dr.
Lulla, went to Poona with a view to bring back the
respondent. The evidence as to what transpired at the
interview with the respondent was somewhat conflicting, and
the appellant’s case was that the respondent intimated to
him her fixed determination not to go back to him. On July
7, 1954, the respondent along with her father went abroad to
the Far Eastern countries, for the purpose of recouping her
health, according to her. Before going abroad the
respondent had to go Bombay for getting the passport and
going through the formalities; and while there she was
staying in a house very near the appellant’s but she did not
visit him nor see their child. On learning that the
respondent had gone abroad without intimation to him he
cabled to her asking her to come back immediately but the
respondent did not do so as required by the appellant.
There was some correspondence’ about the matter and the
respondent continued to say in her letters that she would
soon come back to his place. By his letter dated April 1,
1955, the appellant used strong language passing severe
strictures against her conduct &id in her continuing to be
abroad without obeying his instructions. The respondent
replied by letter dated April 12, 1955, saying: "As soon as
my.
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health has completely improved I shall, of course come back
to you and to our son." After this there was no further
correspondence between the, parties. In April, 1956, the
respondent returned to India but she did not go to the
appellant’s home nor did meet him. On September 20, 1956,
the appellant filed the present petition praying for
judicial separation under s. 10(1)(a) of the Hindu Marriage
Act, 1955. The respondent’s defenses to the petition, inter
alia, were that she never left the appellant’s matrimonial
home with the intention of breaking it and that, in any
case, the appellant charged her falsely with immorality in
his letter dated April 1, 1955, and so she was justified in
living separately.
Held (Subba Rao, J. Dissenting), (1) that on the facts the
respondent left the appellant’s matrimonial home On February
26,1954, with the intention of permanently, breaking it
up, and thatsuch desertion continued during the requisite
period of two years.
(2) that the appellant’s letter of April 1, 1955, did not
con stitute an interruption of the respondent’s desertion by
its being a just cause for her to remain away from the
matrimonial home; and
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(3) that, in consequence, the appellant was entitled to a
decree for judicial separation under s. 10(1)(a) of the
Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.
Per Subba Rao, I.-(1) Where a spouse seeks judicial
separation on the ground of desertion a heavy burden lies on
him or her to prove four essential conditions, namely (1)
the factum of separation, (2) animus deserendi, (3) absence
of his or her consent, and (4) absence of his or her conduct
giving reasonable cause to the deserting spouse to leave the
matrimonial home. The offence of desertion must be proved
beyond any reasonable doubt and as a rule of prudence the
evidence of the petitioner shall be corroborated.
(2) The expression "includes the wilful neglect" in the
explanation to s. 10(1) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955,
does not enlarge the scope of the word desertion so as to
take in by definition the conscious neglect on the part of
that offending spouse without the requisite animus
deserendi; it does not introduce a new concept in Indian
law, but is only an affirmation of the doctrine of
constructive desertion in English law. The ingredients of
desertion as well as constructive desertion are the same,
though in one case there is actual abandonment and in the
other there is expulsive conduct. The said doctrine is not
rigid but elastic and without doing violence to the
principles governing it, it can be applied to the peculiar
situations that arise in an Indian society and home.
(3) Sections 9 and 10 of the Act deal with different
subjects and s. 9 does not throw any light on the
construction of the expression "without reasonable cause" in
the explanation to s. 10. Whether there was a reasonable
cause or not in a given case could
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be decided only on the evidence and the peculiar
-circumstances of that case.
(4) In the present case, the evidence was clear that the
respondent left her matrimonial home with the permission of
her husband and his parents and that it was not possible to
infer from the evidence given by Dr. Lulla that the
respondent decided to abandon the appellant. The letters
demonstrated beyond any reasonable doubt that the wife did
not demonstrated beyond band with the requisite animus, but
on the other hand, showed her willingness to go over to
Bombay as soon as she regained her health. In view of the
false allegations made by the appellant in his letter dated
April 1, 1954, in which he charged the respondent with
unchastity and leading a fast and reckless life, from that
date the desertion, if any, on the part of the respondent
came to an end and from that date the appellant was guilty
of desertion.
JUDGMENT:
CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION: Civil Appeal No. 292 of 1961.
Appeal from the judgment and decree dated July 16, 1959, of
the Bombay High Court in Appeal from the Original Decree No.
802 of 1957.
j. C. Bhatt and N. N. Keswam, for the appellant.
C. B. Agarwala, C. M. Mehta and V. j. Merchant, for the
respondent.
August 14, 1963. The Judgment of B. P. Sinha, C.J., S. K.Das,
Raghubar Dayal and N. Rajagopala Ayyangar,jj. was delivered
by Ayyangar, J. Subba Rao, J. delivered a dissenting
opinion.
AYYANGAR J.-This is an appeal against the judgment of the
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High Court of Bombay reversing the judgment and decree of
the City Civil Court at Bombay by which a decree for
judicial separation granted by’ the trial judge was reversed
and it comes before us on a certificate of fitness granted
by the High Court under Art. 133(1) (c) of the Constitution.
The appellant, the husband, filed a petition in the City
Civil Court, Bombay, under s. 10(1) (a) of the Hindu
Marriage Act, 1955 (which we shall hereafter refer to as the
Act), praying for a decree against the respondent, his wife,
for judicial separation on the ground that in terms of that
provision she had "deserted" him for "a continuous period of
not less than two years immediately preceding the
presentation of his petition". The petition was presented
on September 20, 1956, and the material allega
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tion was that the wife had left the matrimonial home on
February 26, 1954, and had not thereafter come back to him
and that this constituted "desertion" within the meaning of
the provision just cited. The learned trial Judge held that
the appellant had established to the satisfaction of the
Court that the respondent-wife had left the matrimonial home
with the intention of permanently breaking it up and that
such desertion continued during the requisite period of two
years and in consequence granted the decree for judicial
separation, as prayed for. The wife preferred an appeal, to
the High Court and the learned judges disagreeing with the
finding of the learned trial judge that the leaving, by the
wife, of the matrimonial home was with the intention of
deserting the appellant, reversed the decree of the trial
judge and directed the dismissal of the appellant’s petition
with costs. It is the correctness of this reversal that is
canvassed in the appeal before us.
Even at the outset we might state that the decision of the
appeal does not depend so much on any substantial question
of law but rather on an appreciation of the facts on two
matters on the basis of which the learned Judges of the High
Court have decided the case against the appellant: (1)
whether the appellant had established that the respondent
had an irrevocable determination to break up the matrimonial
home when she admittedly left the petitioner on February 26,
1954, and did not return to him thereafter, it being common
ground that the onus of proving this to the reasonable
satisfaction of the Court was on the appellant, and (2)
whether the respondent had a justifiable cause for not
returning to the husband the existence of which prevented
her admitted absence from the matrimonial home from
constituting "desertion" as to serve as the foundation for
an order for judicial separation under s. 10(1) (a) of the
Act.
Before, however, dealing with these two points which from
the crux of the matter in dispute in the appeal, it is
necessary to summarise, briefly, the history of the married
life of the parties. The parties are Sindhi Hindus of the:
Bhai Bund community. The appellant is a practicing doctor
while the respondent is said to have had read up to the High
school classes. While the appellant’s father and his family
were people of but moderate
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means, the respondent’s father was a very affluent business-
,Man-his business spreading over almost the entire
South .East Asia. He had business houses in Singapore,
Dakarta, ,Hong Kong, Manila etc. Besides, while the
appellant and his parents appear to have been of an orthodox
and conservative outlook and bent of mind, the respondent
and her parent’s apparently did not set much store by
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orthodoxy, and were liberal and modern. It looks to us as
if it is possible that the trouble between the spouses was
in part at least due to these variations.
The parties were married at Hyderabad in Sind (now in
Pakistan) on November 11, 1946. The appellant was living
with his father and mother and his two sisters and after her
marriage the respondent commenced to live with him in this
household. The parties are not agreed as to whether their
marital life was happy even to start with, for while it was
the case of the husband that the same was unhappy even from
the very beginning, the respondent’s version was that for
the first month or so her relationship with her husband was
happy, but nothing much turns on this because from soon
thereafter both of them agree in saying -that they were not
pulling on well together. It is not necessary either to
tract the source of the friction between the spouses or
narrate the incidents which are related in connection
therewith as they are hardly relevant for the decision of
the real points arising in the appeal. The only other
circumstance to be noted in connection with the early period
of their married life was that on July 19, 1947, a son,
Ashok, was born to the respondent who, it may be mentioned,
is now living with the appellant.
It is common experience that in some cases, the birth of a
child puts an end to minor misunderstandings and bickerings
between the spouses, for the parties concentrate on
lavishing in common their love on the child and thus the two
are brought together but in the case on band, it does not
seem to have had this effect and the relation between the
parties does not appear to have been smoothened by Ashok’s
birth. With the partition of the sub-continent the parties
migrated to India.
The appellant, his parents and his two sisters who were all
living with him moved over to Bombay along with the
respondent and their young child but apparent-
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ly. the accommodation which they could ’then secure was pot
sufficient for this large family, and as a result the
appellant took the respondent, his child and his two sisters
to Colombo and left them in the care of his maternal uncle,
one Narian Das, to stay there till he could find a
sufficiently commodius home in Bombay. The respondent
stayed for a very short time at Colombo and though she
admitted that she was treated with kindness and affection by
this uncle, apparently all was not well in the relationship
between the appellant’s sisters and the respondent. What
emerged out of this was that she left Colombo without
informing either Narian Das or the appellant and came over
to India. She came to Poona and Lonavala and started
staying with her mother who was there. There is a complaint
by the appellant against her leaving his uncle without
informing him and on the other hand there is a complaint by
the respondent about the way in which her sisters-in-law
behaved towards tier ,but we pass over these incidents and
the respective cases ,as, not having any material bearing on
the points at issue in the appeal. The appellant having
come to know of her ,arrival at Lonavala, it is common
ground that he went there and induced her to come over and
stay with him at ,Bombay. This was sometime towards the end
of January, 1948.
The period from January, 1948, to 1954 might be dealt with
together. During this period she was staying most of the
time with the appellant at Bombay but his complaint is that
she used to leave him very often and that pressure had to be
exerted or inducements offered to get her back to Bombay to
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stay with him. This is, -of course, denied by the
respondent whose story is that every time it was with his
consent that she went and that she came back of her own
accord. It is not, however, necessary to decide which of
these versions is correct, though the learned trial judge
who had an opportunity of seeing these two as witnesses was
inclined to accept the version of the husband in respect of
any matter on which he, was contradicted by his wife. It is
only necessary to add that though during these 4 or 5 years
or so, the parties were living together most of the time the
relations between them had not become normalised. Be-
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sides, it might be mentioned that the relationship between
the parents of the two spouses were also strained and simi-
larly the relationship between the appellant and his wife’s
parents as also between the respondent and her husbands
parents.
We next come to a crucial event. On February 26, 1954, the
respondent left the appellant’s house at Bombay (Colaba) and
went to Poona. She was taken from the house by her father
who had come there in the evening and she traveled with him
to poona by train. It is the case of the appellant that the
respondent left his home with the main items of her
jewellery and clothes without the knowledge and consent of
himself and his parents and at a time when there was no one
in the house except a maid-servant and that he came to know
of the respondent’s departure only from the maid-servant,
when he later returned to the house. On the other hand, it
is the case of the respondent that she left the house after
permission had been obtained by her father from her father-
in-law and after she herself had obtained the permission of
her husband and that at the time of the departure when her
father came to take her, her father-in-law, mother-in-law
and the appellant were all present in the house and that the
jewels etc., were given to her by her mother-in-law who bade
her good-bye and wished her a happy journey. The learned
trial judge accepted the appellant’s story that the
respondent did not seek or obtain anyone’s permission for
quitting the house and that she left the house without the
knowledge or consent ’of anyone. The materiality of the
acceptance of the appellant’s version stems from the fact
that in order to ’constitute desertion the withdrawal of the
deserting spouse from the matrimonial home should be without
reasonable cause and "without the consent or against the
wish of such party" [vide Explanation to s. 10(1) of the
Act]. On the other hand, the learned Judges of the High
Court were inclined to accept the wife’s version that she
had the consent of her husband to leave the home. For
reasons we shall set out in its proper place we are in
agreement with the learned trial Judge and do not share the
views of the learned judges who accepted the wife’s version
of this event. We shall, however, revert to it after
comple-
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ting the narrative of the events leading up to the filing of
the petition.
It is the case of the appellant that he came to know a few
days after her leaving him that his wife was staying at
Poona with her parents. According to his evidence he
considered that, having regard to the manner in which his
wife left him, no useful purpose would be served by any trip
of his to Poona to persuade her to come back. It was his
further case that a friend of his-one Dr. Lulla, an M.R.C.P.
of London who was employed as a doctor in a hospital in a
suburb of Bombay-suggested that the two of them go to Poona
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and try to induce the respondent to come back to Bombay.
This proposal, he says, he accepted and the appellant as
well as Dr. Lulla who has been. examined as a witness on his
side have testified to the fact that in the last week of
May, 1954, both of them went to Poona one evening, met the
respondent at her parents’ house and appealed to her to come
back to Bombay to live with the appellant. According to the
evidence of both these witnesses, the respondent, when re-
quested to come back to Bombay, stated that she was de-
termined never again to come back to her husband’s house.
The respondent denied the entire story and stated that
neither the appellant nor Dr. Lulla ever came to Poona
during her stay there, nor of course ever talked to her.
The learned trial Judge who had the opportunity of seeing
Dr. Lulla in the box entertained a very favorable opinion of
his respectability and credibility and accepted in toto his
evidence that the respondent intimated to him her fixed
determination not to come back to the appellant. In the
background of the previous history of the relationship
between the parties and the manner in which the respondent
left, the husband’s home on February 26, 1954, as found by
the trial Judge, he recorded a finding that the factum of
desertion which was not in dispute was accompanied by
"’animus deserendi’ which had been satisfactorily
established by the declaration she made to the appellant and
his friend. The learned Judges of the High Court were not
disposed to differ from the learned trial judge as regards
the reality of the visit to Poona of Dr. Lulla accompanied
by the appellant and their meeting the respondent there.
They were, however, not in-
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clined to attach any value to Dr. Lulla’s testimony as
regards the statement made by the respondent because of two
factors: (1) the time lag between May, 1954, when he met her
and April, 1957, when he gave evidence; the learned judges
were inclined to hold that the witness could not properly
remember correctly the dialogue after that interval ; (2)
the fact that Dr. Lulla could not reproduce verbatim the
questions put to the respondent and the answers she gave was
considered by them as a circumstance which would detract
from the acceptability of, the evidence regarding the
matters about which he deposed. For these reasons the
learned Judges found that though Dr. Lulla might have
visited the respondent in May, 1954, as spoken to by him,
there was no proper proof before the Court that the
respondent had given expression to a determination not to
return to the husband. We shall deal later with this
appreciation of Dr. Lulla’s evidence and the weight to be
attached to it, but, to continue the narrative, the
respondent left India for Singapore on July 7, 1954, and
returned from abroad in April, 1956. During this period
there has been some correspondence between the parties by
way of telegrams and letter which have considerable
relevance on the issues involved in the case and the points
in controversy between the parties.
Before, however, referring to the events of that period a
few more incidents which happened prior to the departure of
the respondent from India have to be noticed After Dr.
Lulla’s meeting the respondent at the end of May, 1954, the
next event of some importance is that the respondent and her
father came to Bombay during June, 1954, for the purpose of
the respondent obtaining a passport to enable her to leave
India. At that time, it is common ground, that the
respondent stayed with her paternal uncle-one Tola Ram-whose
house was in Colaba and about five minutes’ walk from the
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appellant’s residence. It is the case of the appellant that
when the respondent and her father came over to Bombay in
June they stayed there for about a month. This however, is
denied by the respondent and her father who say that the
duration of their stay at Bombay at Tola Ram’s house was
only for a little over a fortnight. It
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matters little which version is correct but one thing is
clear that notwithstanding the admitted stay in Bombay for
two weeks or more she never went to her husband’s house
either to see him or even to see her son, Ashok, then a boy
of about 7 years. The learned Judges of the High Court have
not adverted to this circumstance which we consider has
material bearing in deciding between the rival versions as
to whether the respondent did or did not leave the husband’s
home with his permission and consent and the blessings of
the parents-in-law. It is also to be noticed, and about
this there is no dispute, that in the application for the
passport and in the passport itself it was not the
appellant’s name or address that was given as her Indian
residential address but that of Tola Ram in Colaba. As
stated earlier, the respondent left Bombay by air for abroad
on . July 7, 1954. Before taking off she was in Bombay for
nearly 24 hours before the plane’s departure. It is not in
dispute that even then, she did not visit her husband or her
child though she was staying at Tola Ram’s.
From Bombay the respondent reached Singapore by air and it
is admitted that she sent no intimation or information to
the appellant either regarding her departure, the place to
which she had gone or the proposed duration of her stay.
The appellant having come to know through other sources of
the respondent having gone to Singapore, sent her a
cablegram on the 20th July reading :
"Extremely surprised at your suddenly secretly
leaving India without my knowledge and
consent. Return immediately first plane"..
to which the respondent replied also by a cablegram
"Returning within a few months".
These telegrams would, at least, make one thing clear that
the appellant’s case that he had no knowledge of the
respondent leaving India was not an after-thought and is
probably true. On receipt of this telegram dated the 23rd
July the appellant replied the next day
"You must return immediately".
of course, the respondent did not return but her case was
that she replied by a letter dated August 2, 1954. There is
a controversy between the parties as to whether
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this letter was really written at all, or if written, was
posted and to the proper address. It is, however, common
ground, and found by both the Courts, that the appellant did
not receive any letter from the respondent bearing that date
or written at about that time or with the contents which
according to her were the contents of that letter. The
learned trial judge was inclined to the view that the
respondent did write a letter on that date but he was not
satisfied that the copy which she produced which has been
marked as Ex. 4 in the case represented either a true copy
of it or carried the contents of that letter. He,
therefore, discarded Ex. 4 from consideration. The learned
judges of the High Court on the other hand, took the view
that a letter was written by the respondent on that date and
they were prepared to accept her story that the original of
that letter which was stated to be in manuscript-written in
her own hand,. was copied from the typescript which she
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produced and which was marked as Ex. 4. The evidentiary
value of that letter was stated to consist in its disclosure
of the state of mind of the respondent and the learned
judges held that its contents indicated the readiness and
willingness on the part of the respondent to join her
husband and therefore negatived any animus to desert or to
continue the desertion, if there was any such intention
originally on her part. We shall reserve the discussion of
the evidentiary value of this letter to a later stage but
shall here merely set out the material parts of it:
"I really feel surprised why you want me to
return to Bombay by first plane without any
reason.
Dear, I was particularly pained to read that I
have suddenly and secretly left the place
without your consent. What has prompted you
to write this I really do not understand.
Dear, how comes this change. You know I was
not keeping good health and considerably gone
down in spirit and weight for reasons which I
do not like to discuss here since You are
fully aware. It was you who suggested that I
should go over and stay at my father’s place
and at your suggestion I did so. You are
fully aware that I was accompanying my father
to Singapore for a few months for a change and
you gave consent. As soon
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as I feel better I shall return to Bombay."
The appellant not having received this letter (if it was
written) and not having received any reply to his cable
dated July 24, 1954, asking the respondent to return im-
mediately to India, was, according to him, hearing stones
that she was moving from place to place. He thereupon’ sent
her a cablegram on February 24, 1955, and addressed it to
both her Singapore and Djakarta addresses as he was not
quite sure as to where exactly she was. That telegram read
:
"Since your secret departure you not replying
my telegrams, letters. Myself shocked. You
wandering different countries leading reckless
life spoiling my reputation. Your most
disgraceful behaviour ruining my life."
At the time the cable was received the
respondent was still at Singapore and on the
26th she replied by cable :
"Your allegations in your cable dated 24th not
correct. Cannot understand your attitude. I
have departed with your knowledge with my
father because of ailing health due to reasons
you are well aware. Keeping quiet life with
my parents. Have not received your letter ;
only telegrams which have been replied by
cable and letter."
and to this the appellant replied also by
cable:
"Your telegram dated 26th February contains
all foul lies. Myself shocked at your
fabricating false stories to justify your
secretly quitting home and flouting my
repeated instructions."
But even before the receipt of this last cable from the
appellant the respondent wrote to him a letter from Sin-
gapore dated March 3 in which, after setting out the text of
the cablegrams exchanged, she made a positive assertion that
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she wrote a, letter to him on August 2, 1954. The rest of
the letter was concerned with inviting him to come abroad
and stay with her and her father at Hong Kong to which place
she said she was leaving the next day and she promised
him real pleasure if he stopped working for his parents and
commenced having pleasure with the respondent in her
father’s house. After the dispatch of this letter on the
3rd of March the respondent received the appellants cable
in which he reiterated his
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allegation that she had left his house secretly and without
his knowledge and was thereafter flouting his instructions.,
On March 10, 1955, she sent him a cable from Hong Kong
refuting this allegation and adverting to the invitation’
contained in her letter dated March 3, 1955, she, said.
"Why don’t you come out of Bombay house-hold
atmosphere and see for yourself. Cannot
understand, what you mean by flouting repeated
instructions."
The letter of the 3rd was dispatched by the respondent by
registered post and when this was received as well as the
cables from the respondent, the appellant wrote in reply a
letter sent by registered post dated April 1, 1955, in which
he passed severe strictures against her conduct and in her
continuing abroad without obeying his
instructions. We shall have to deal in somewhat
great detail with the contents of this letter. Ordinarily
read it might seem to indicate that the appellant was
charging the respondent with improper behaviour even amount-
ing to sexual immorality. While in the witness box the
appellant specifically repudiated that he intended any Such
imputation and, in fact, made it clear that he was neither
basing his petition on any allegation of immorality nor that
he ever intended to impute any such conduct to her. The
learned trial judge accepted this explanation of the
appellant and interpreted the letter as the outpourings of
an angry and grieved husband and was not, therefore, in-
clined to read the expressions used therein as imputing
unchastity to her. On the other hand, the learned judges of
the High Court analysed the text of the letter and
considered that it clearly made false and unfounded
imputations of unchastity on the respondent and for that
reason they held that even if the respondent be held to have
had an animus deserendi when she quitted her husband’s home
on February 26, 1954, and continued to retain that animus,
still having regard to the false and malicious amputations
of unchastity made by the appellant in his letter dated
April 1, 1955, they held that she had justifiable cause for
not returning to him thereafter and this formed one of the
prime grounds for directing the dismissal of the appellant’s
petition for judicial separations We shall have to discuss
these conflicting views and the different -interpretations
of this letter, in the light of the
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evidence adduced in the case when dealing with it. We
shall, however, pass this over for the present and continue
the narrative.
The respondent received this letter while she was still at
Hong Kong. But the next day she left for Manila and she
replied from the latter place on April 12, 1955. The main
points made in this reply were : (1) She left the house of
the appellant with the consent of himself and his parents,
(2) The reason for her leaving Bombay to stay with her
parents was that her health was poor and -she wanted to
recoup it by a trip abroad. The stay abroad was therefore
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only for the improvement of her health., (3) The reason for
her vacationing with her parents being for the improvement
of her health and for no other-not for leading the gay life
which was suggested in the appellant’s letter dated April 1,
1955. She added :
"As soon as my health has completely improved I shall, of
course, come back to you and to our son." This, was the end
of the correspondence between the parties. It is common
ground that she did not inform the appellant as to when she
would be returning to India which was in April, 1956. Nor
did she inform the appellant after her arrival in the
country, nor did she go to his home-Bombay-to meet him or
her son. just about the time some relations of the
respondent were vacationing for the summer in Kashmir and
she accompanied them there and spent the summer in the
valley. No communications passed between the appellant and
the respondent during this period either. It was after this
that the petitioner filed the petition out of which this
appeal arises, on September 20, 1956. After the respondent
was served with notice of the petition some attempt was made
to effect a reconciliation but it is not necessary to notice
this because if there had been desertion, as required by law
and the duration of that desertion amounted to two years,
the terms of s. 10(1) of the Act are satisfied and the fact
that thereafter the guilty spouse repents or recants is not
by itself a ground for refusing the relief to which the
injured spouse is entitled (Compare s. 23(1) of the Act).
From the above narration it will be seen that there are
three points of contested fact on which the decision
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of this appeal would turn : (1) whether the respondent left
the appellant’s home on February 26, 1954, with his consent
or whether she did so without such consent., (2) What was
the intention or animus of the respondent-in leaving her
matrimonial home, and in regard to this the interview with
Dr. Lulla and the other matters to which we have referred
earlier and which transpired before the respondent left
India on July 7, 1954, would have relevance., (3) The proper
interpretation of the letter of April 1, 1955, writ-ten by
the appellant to the respondent and whether in the
circumstances of the case it would afford legal
justification for the respondent’s refusal thereafter to
return to the matrimonial home, and to these questions we
shall immediately address ourselves.
Before doing so, however, it might be convenient to refer
briefly to the law on the topic. The relevant statutory
provision may first be set out. Reading only the portion
that is material s. 10(1) enacts
"10. (1) Either party to a marriage whether
solemnized before or after the commencement of
this Act, may present a petition to the
district court praying for a decree for
judicial separation on the ground that the
other party-
(a) has deserted the petitioner for a
continuous period of not less than two years
immediately preceding the presentation of the
petition ; or"
This sub-section is followed by an Explanation which runs :
"Explanation.-In this section, the expression
’desertion’, with its grammatical variations
and cognate expressions, means the desertion
of the petitioner by the other party to the
marriage without reasonable cause and without
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the consent or against the wish of such party,
and includes the willful neglect of the
petitioner by the other party to the
marriage."
The question as to what precisely constitutes "desertion"
came up for consideration before this Court in an appeal
from Bombay where the. Court had to consider the provisions
of s. 3(1) of the Bombay Hindu Divorce Act, 1947, whose
language is in pari material with that of s.
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10(1) of the Act. In the judgment of this Court in Bipin
Chander v. Prabhawati(1) there is an elaborate consideration
of the several English decisions in which the question of
the ingredients of desertion were considered and the
following summary of the law in Halsbury’s Laws of England
(3rd Edn.), Vol. 12, was cited with approval :
"In its essence desertion means the
intentional permanent forsaking and
abandonment of one spouse by the other without
that other’s consent, and without reasonable
cause. It is a total repudiation of the ob-
ligations of marriage. In view of the large
variety of circumstances and of modes of life
involved, the Court has discouraged attempts
at defining desertion, there being no general
principle applicable to all cases.
The position was thus further explained by
this Court:
"If a spouse abandon the other spouse in a
state of temporary passion, for example, anger
or disgust, without intending permanently to
cease cohabitation, it will not amount to
desertion. For the offence of desertion, so
far as the deserting spouse is concerned, two
essential conditions must be there, (1) the
factum of separation, and (2) the intention to
bring cohabitation permanently to an end
(animus deserendi). Similarly two elements
are essential so far as the deserted spouse is
concerned : (1) the absence of consent and (2)
absence of conduct giving reasonable cause to
the spouse leaving the matrimonial home to
form the necessary intention aforesaid........
Desertion is a matter of inference to be drawn
from the facts ’and circumstances of each
case. The inference may be drawn from certain
facts which may not in another case be capable
of leading to the same inference ; that is to
say, the facts have to be viewed as to the
purpose which is revealed by those acts or by
conduct and expression of intention, both
anterior and subsequent to the actual acts of
separation. If, in fact there has been a
separation, the essential question always is
whether that act could be attributable to an
animus descrendi. The offence of desertion
commences when the fact of separation and
(1) [1956] S.C.R. 838.
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the animus deserendi co-exist. But it is not
necessary that they should commence at the
same time. The de facto separation may have-
commenced without the necessary animus or it
may be that the separation and the animus
deserendi coincide in point of time."
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Two more matters which have a bearing on the points in
dispute in this appeal might also be mentioned. The first
relates to the burden of proof in these cases, and this is a
point to which we have already made a passing reference. It
is settled law that the burden of proving desertion-the
"factum" as well as the "animus deserenai is on the
petitioner, and he or she has to establish beyond reasonable
doubt, to the satisfaction of the Court the desertion
throughout the entire period of two years before the
petition as well as that such desertion was without just
cause. In other words, even if the wife, where she is the
deserting spouse, does not prove just cause for her living
apart, the petitioner-husband has still to satisfy the Court
that the desertion was without just cause.
As Denning, L.J., observed : (Dunn v. Dunn)(1)
: "The burden he (Counsel for the husband)
said was on her to prove just cause (for
living apart). The argument contains a
fallacy which has been put forward from
time to time in many branches of the law. The
fallacy lies in a failure to’ distinguish bet-
ween a legal burden of proof laid down by law
and a provisional burden raised by the state
of the evidence............ The legal burden
throughout this case is on the husband, as
petitioner, to prove that his wife deserted
him without cause. To discharge that burden,
he relies on the fact that he asked her to
join him and she refused. That is a fact from
which the court may infer that she deserted
him without cause, but it is not bound to do
so. Once he proves that fact of refusal, she
may seek to rebut the inference of desertion
by proving that she had just cause for her
refusal ; and indeed, it is usually wise for
her to do so, but there is no legal burden on
her to do so. Even if she does not
affirmatively prove just cause, the court has
still, at the end of the case, to ask itself:
Is the legal burden discharged? Has
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the husband proved that she deserted him
without cause? Take this case. The wife was
very deaf, and for that reason could not
explain to the court her reasons for refusal.
The judge thereupon considered reasons for her
refusal which appeared from the facts in
evidence, though she had not herself stated
that they operated on her mind. Counsel for
the husband says that the judge ought not to
have done that. If there were a legal burden
on the wife he would be right, but there was
none. The legal burden was on the husband to
prove desertion without cause, and the judge
was right to ask himself at the end of the
case: Has that burden been discharged?"
This, in our opinion, is as well the law in
this country under the Act.
The other matter is this. Once desertion, as defined
earlier, is established there is no obligation on the deser-
ted husband (taking the case where he is the deserted
spouse) to appeal to the deserting spouse to change her
mind, and the circumstance that the deserted husband makes
no effort to take steps to effect a reconciliation with the
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wife does not debar him from obtaining the relief of
judicial separation, for once desertion is proved the
deserting spouse, so long as she evinces no sincere inten-
tion to effect a reconciliation and return to the matrimo-
nial home, is presumed to continue in desertion. of course,
the matter would wear a different complexion and different
considerations would arise where before the end of the
statutory period of 2 years or even thereafter before the
filing of the petition for judicial separation the conduct
of the deserted spouse was such as to make the deserting
spouse desist from making any attempt at reconciliation. If
he or she so acts as to make it plain to the deserting
spouse that any offer on the part of the latter to resume
cohabitation would be rejected, then the deserting spouse
could obviously not be blamed for not bringing the desertion
to an end. Or again, if before the end of the period of two
years or the filing of the petition his or her conduct is
such as to provide a just cause for the deserting spouse for
not resuming cohabitation, the petition cannot succeed, for
the petitioner would have to establish that the desertion
was without just cause du-
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ring the entire period referred to in s. 10(1)(a) of the
Act: before he can succeed.
There were a few submissions made to us by learned counsel
for the appellant regarding the nature of the "just cause",
particularly whether this should amount to "cruelty" or
other matrimonial offence etc., based on a construction of
certain other provisions of the Act, but as these have no
substance and were not persisted in, we consider it
unnecessary even to refer to them.
We shall now proceed to consider the facts in the light of
these principles with a view to find out whether the
appellant has proved that the respondent had deserted him
without just cause for the requisite period. We start with
the admitted circumstance that the respondent left the
husband’s home on February 26, 1954. It was not suggested
that the husband threw her out or that she left because of
any expulsive conduct on his part. There is therefore no
suggestion or case that she left for any justifiable cause.
The next question that would fall for determination is
whether she left with his consent. As we have stated
earlier, on this point the learned judges of the High Court
have recorded a finding different from that of the trial
Judge. The case of the respondent was that she had the
consent of her parents-in-law and also of the husband, and
she even went to the length of suggesting that it was he who
suggested that she might go abroad with her father in order
to improve her health. Now as to the obtaining the consent
of the respondent’s parents-in-law, the evidence was this.
The respondents father who was her second witness deposed as
follows: There had always been disinclination on the part of
the appellant and his parents in permitting the respondent
to go over to her parents’ place on most earlier occasions.
When permission was thus sought for such a purpose, there
had always been friction and trouble. In connection with
his taking his daughter with him when he intended to leave
India in July, 1954 he sought their permission on more than
two occasions but the same was refused. Subsequently a
friend and a neighbour of his at Poona--one Maganmal-
promised to intercede with the appellants father. The
latter spoke to the appellant’s father and obtained
permission and informed the witness.
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The entire story of Maganmal having spoken to appellant’s
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father and obtained the latter’s permission was denied by
the appellant as false and the learned trial Judge was not
inclined to believe the story as true. Maganmal who gave
evidence as D.W. 3 admitted that he could not claim to be
any close friend of the petitioner’s father and, in fact, he
admitted to what might ordinarily constitute a state of
unfriendliness between them. Kanayalal who had married the
appellant’s sister was the adopted son of one Nanikram who
was stated to have died leaving a will by which he disposed
of his properties in favour of a trust. The trustees,
including Maganmal who was one of the trustees, upheld the
validity of the will and claimed the properties for the
trust, but Kanayalal challenged the truth and validity of
the will and claimed the property as the heir of Nanikram.
It was stated by Maganmal that himself and the appellant’s
father became acquainted with each other when they happened
to meet in connection with this trust estate and when the
appellant’s father came to him to sponsor the interests of
his son-in-law. This apart, the talk between himself and
the appellant’s father as a result of which the permission
is said to have been granted was thus stated by Maganmal in
his evidence:
"I (Maganmal) talked to the petitioner’s
father in Bombay in collection with the
securing of permission for the respondent at
the most for five months. I straightaway
talked to the petitioner’s father about the
securing of the permission for the respondent.
There was no other topic discussed between
myself and the petitioner’s father. The talk
between myself and the petitioner’s father
took place in the compound of Ishardas Temple
when I and the petitioner’s father came out of
the temple. I took the petitioner’s father
aside when I had a talk with the petitioner’s
father."
This would not be a very credible story, because if to the
requests of the respondent’s father on two or three occa-
sions the appellant’s father had refused permission it does
not stand to reason that to a person situated as Maganmal
was in relation to him he would have yielded merely because
it was mentioned by Maganmal. The learned trial Judge who
had an opportunity of seeing Maganmal in the box was not
impressed with his evidence and for the reasons
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we have set out earlier regarding the relationship between
the appellant’s father and Maganmal learned trial judge
considered that the story of Maganmal being deputed to
obtain permission and his having obtained permission was
false. We are inclined to agree with the learned trial
judge in this appreciation of the oral testimony. If
Maganmal’s evidence is rejected then the entire
superstructure of the respondent’s case about the consent of
the appellant’s parents must fall to the ground. In this
connection there arc a few other matters to mention. It was
common ground that the appellant’s father was, at the time
of the trial, away at Tokyo on business and he was not in a
position to be examined as a witness. The learned judges of
the High Court, however, drew an inference adverse to the
appellant from (1) his not calling his mother as a witness,
and (2) the non-examination of maidservant who was stated to
have been in the house at the time when the respondent left
it on February 26, 1954. We do not agree with the learned
judges of the High Court in the inference so drawn. If
Maganmal’s evidence is -rejected, as it must, the father of
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the respondent who supported the story of Maganmal’s
intervention would not come out with flying colours and if
his evidence as to this part is rejected we consider that it
was not incumbent on the appellant to adduce the negative
evidence of his mother etc., at the risk of an adverse
inference being drawn against him in the event oil his not
doing so.
Besides, there -.ire some circumstances which lead to the
inference that the story spoken to by the respondent about
her parents-in-law being per sent at the time of her
departure and their loading her with gifts of jewellery and
clothes is not credible. If really the respondent had left
the house with the consent and goodwill of the appellant’s
parents or if as she would have it in some of her letters,
it was the appellant himself who suggested her going abroad
with her father to recoup her health. there could be no
explanation for the conduct of the respondent in ,not going
over to the house of the appellant during her stay in Bombay
in June, 1954, for a fortnight or more when she was there in
connection with her passport, and when she stayed admittedly
within a few minutes’ walk of the appellant’s place. There
would also be no explanation for
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her failure to inform the appellant and his parents about
her departure from Bombay on July 7, 1954. It is only
necessary to add that even in the first cable which the
appellant sent her on coming to know of her departure from
India the appellant complained that she had left India
secretly without his knowledge and consent to which there
was no contradiction in the reply by cable that she sent on
July 22, 1954, though in her later cablegrams and letters
she asserted that she had such a consent. There are several
other matters which have been mentioned by the learned trial
judge, such as the discrepancies in the several versions
that the respondent spoke to from time to time and between
these and the evidence given by her father and that of
Maganmal coupled with her case as set out in the -pleadings
as circumstances for discarding the entire story as false,
but to these it is not necessary for us to advert in view of
the broad features we have pointed out which have led us to
the conclusion that the respondent did not leave the house
of the appellant with his consent but that she did so of her
own accord and without his knowledge.
The next matter for enquiry is as to the animus which
prompted the respondent to leave the appellant’s house.
There was admittedly no incident which led to the departure
from the matrimonial home which could throw light on that
question nor is there any contemporaneous declaration of the
respondent. The learned trial judge has set out the history
of the relationship of the parties ever since their marriage
up to 1954 as the background in which the simple act of
leaving should be viewed for the purpose of determining the
animus with which that act was done. The learned Judges of
the High Court considered that this was not a proper
approach to the question. Without deciding on the
correctness of the approach of the learned trial judge, we
shall proceed on the basis that the learned judges were
right in discarding the earlier history of the relationship
between the parties as irrelevant for determining whether
the respondent in removing herself from her husband’s house
did or did not intend her withdrawal to be permanent and
with a view to disrupt their marriage and terminate their
married life. We shall consequently confine ourselves to
the events and matters which trans-
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pired after she left the appellant’s home to determine what
her intention was at the time when she left it.
The first matter to which reference must be made is the fact
that after reaching Poona on February 26, 1954, until the
end of May of that year she never wrote any letter to her
husband. If, as we have found earlier, she left the
appellant’s house without his Consent or even knowledge, the
failure on her part to intimate to him as to where she had
gone would certainly be a relevant circumstance indicative
of the animus which impelled her to leave the home. This
is, no doubt, a slight circumstance, but she has really no
explanation to offer for her silence and particularly so
when taken in conjunction with the case that she put forward
that she left her husband’s place with the blessings of her
parents-in-law and almost at the suggestion of her husband
in order that her health might improve.
The next circumstance which, however, is very much more
important, is her declaration on the occasion when the
appellant and Dr. Lulla visited her at Poona towards the end
of May. The learned trial judge, as stated earlier, has
accepted that Dr. Lulla and the appellant did visit her at
Poona as spoken to by them and that her story denying this
meeting is false. The learned Judges of the High Court also
did not accept her denial of the meeting, but they however
refused to attach any importance to the evidence of Dr.
Lulla for the reason that he was unable to specify the exact
words of the questions put to her and her answers. We do
not agree with the learned judges about the value to be
attached to the evidence of Dr. Lulla. The relevant portion
of Dr. Lulla’s evidence runs thus :
"I told her (the respondent) to go back to
Bombay and then settle the differences
whatever they were between the petitioner and
the respondent but she said that she was not
prepared to go back for ever. There was no
further talk between myself and the
respondent. The petitioner had a talk with
the respondent first and then I had a talk
with the respondent. I cannot recollect what
the petitioner actually told the respondent.
The respondent did not mention the differences
which she had with the petitioner’ She only
stated that she was not prepared to come back
to the peti-
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tioner for ever."
Now, it will be seen that this evidence is categorical. It
Consists of two parts: The first is as regards the gist of
the conversation between the appellant, and the respondent
when they were together. He admits he was not present when
they talked to each other and it is the question and answer
at that stage, i.e., between the appellant and the
respondent that the witness is unable to state to the Court.
The second part of the evidence is in relation to the ques-
tions that he himself put to the respondent. There is, no
ambiguity in his evidence either about the questions which
he put nor about the answers which she gave. The comment of
the learned judges that the witness was unable to reproduce
the exact words of the question put to the respondent and
the words of her answer does not obviously apply to this
second part of the witness’s testimony. If Dr. Lulla be
treated as a truthful witness, and even the learned judges
of the High Court did not express any view to the contrary,
it is clear that the respondent had specifically stated to
him that she would never come back to her husband’s home.
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There is thus clear evidence and satisfactory proof that
besides the factum of desertion there was also the animus
descrendi at the time when she left the husband’s house or
at least at the time of this meeting -it Poona at the end of
May, 1954.
The matter does not rest here for there is further proof of
her animus afforded by her conduct up to the time of her
leaving India for abroad on July 7, 1954. We are, here,
referring to three matters: (1) Her presence in Bombay for a
fortnight or for a month, whichever it be, at her uncle Tola
Ram’s place five minutes walk from the appellant’s residence
and her failure to call on the appellant even for the
purpose of seeing her boy Ashok; (2) her conduct in giving
her address in India as Tola Ram’s place in the application
for a passport and in the passport itself; and (3) her
failure to inform the appellant of her departure from Bombay
and her not calling on him even when she was leaving India
for a stay of a considerable duration abroad.
If then the conduct of the respondent was an act of
desertion with the requisite animus when it started, the
question next to be considered is whether it continued for
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the duration of two years before the presentation of the
appellant’s petition under s. 10(1)(a) of the Act to satisfy
the requirements of the statute. We have already set out
the correspondence which passed between the parties. In the
first telegram which was exchanged between them and which
started immediately the appellant got information that the
respondent had left India-towards the end of July, 1954-he
required the respondent to return to India immediately. In
her replies she stated that she would return, not
immediately-we are not, here, concerned so much with the
reasons which she gave for not so returning-but after her
health improved. If her offer to return after sometime was
genuine and sincere and represented her then true feelings
and intention it cannot be disputed that the desertion would
be brought to an end because thereafter the animus deserendi
would be lacking, though the factum of separation might
continue. On the other hand, it cannot also be disputed
that if the offer was not sincere and there was in reality
no intention to return, the mere fact that letters were
written expressing such an intention would not interrupt the
desertion from continuing. The question for inquiry would,
therefore, be whether these offers by the respondent to
return were sincere. In this connection it is riot without
significance that there are admittedly several occasions on
which the respondent could have returned to India but she
did not do so until April 1956. One of these was when one.
Mr. Choith Rama relation of the parties-returned to India.
It is admitted by both the respondent as well as her father
that it was possible for the respondent to have returned to
India with Choith Ram but it was stated that she did not do
so because she had not been invited to some wedding in the
appellant’s house. We consider this explanation not
satisfactory or convincing. If, as -we have found, she had
left the appellant’s house without his consent, and she
expressed her determination not to return to him when the
appellant and Dr. Lulla met her in May in Poona, and when in
spite of repeated assertions in her letters and telegrams
that she would be coming back, but she fails so to return
when she had occasion and opportunity to do so, we consider
that her acts and conduct in failing to return are entitled
to more weight as evidence of her true
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intention than her assurances contained in her letters. We
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are not, therefore, prepared to hold that bona fide intended
to return to her husband when in her letters and telegrams,
to which we have already adverted, she expressed her
intention to return to him. Besides, it would be seen that
even after she returned to India in April, 1956, she did not
go straight to her husband’s house or even inform him of her
return to India but on the other hand went away to Kashmir
and that state of things continued until the petition was
filed on September 20, 1956. If nothing more happened
between the parties it is clear that the petitioner would be
entitled to the relief which he sought as there was
satisfactory proof of desertion as defined by the statute
for the full term of two years.
The point, however, that forms one of the major bases of the
judgment of the learned Judges and which was strenuously
sought to be supported by Mr. Aggarwala, learned counsel for
the respondent, was based upon the letter of the appellant
dated April 1, 1955, as affording a justification in law for
her refusal to come back to join him.
Before proceeding to deal with the contents of the letter
and the other points urged in relation to it, it might
perhaps be useful to set out the legal position in the light
of which the entire matter has to be considered. As stated
by Scott. L. J., in Tickler v. Tickler(1), quoting the
words of Lord Romer in an earlier decision :
"The question whether a deserting spouse has a
reasonable cause for trying to br
ing the
desertion to an end and the corresponding
question whether desertion without cause has
existed for the necessary period must always
be a question of fact."
The question for consideration in such cases is "Is the con-
duct of the deserted spouse such as to excuse the deserting
spouse from making any attempt to put an end to the deser-
tion or from attempting any reconciliation?" (Vide also
Brewer v. Brewer(1). The basis of this rule rests on this,
that such conduct on the part of the deserted spouse would
legally operate as a consent to the existing separation and
would have the effect of absolving the deserting spouse from
any obligation to return to the matrimonial home or
(1) [1943] 1 All E.R. 7, 59. (2) [1961] 3 All E.R. 957,
964.
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to make amends for her improper conduct, for the petitioner
in a petition for judicial separation grounded on desertion
by the other spouse has to prove that for the period of two
years specified in s. 10(1) (a) of the Act the respondent
has without cause been in desertion and that intention must
be proved to exit through out that period. If, therefore,
during that period the respondent has just cause to remain
apart he or she would not be in desertion and the petition
for judicial separation would fail.
It would be seen that we have here the interaction of two
distinct matters which have to coexist in order that
desertion might come to an end. In the first place, there
must be conduct on the part of the deserted spouse which
affords just and reasonable cause for the deserting spouse
not to seek reconciliation and which absolves her from her
continuing obligation to return to the matrimonial home. In
this one has to have regard to the conduct of the deserted
spouse. But there is one other matter which is also of
equal importance, that is, that the conduct of the deserted
spouse should have had such an. impact on the mind of the
deserting spouse that in fact it causes her to continue to
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live apart and thus continue the desertion. But where,
however, on the facts it is clear that the conduct of the
deserted spouse has had no such effect on the mind of the
deserting spouse there is no rule of law that desertion ter-
minates by reason of the conduct of the deserted spouse. It
appears to us that the principle that the conduct of the
deserted spouse which is proved not to have caused the
deserting spouse to continue the desertion does not put an
end to the desertion appears to be self-evident and deduci-
ble from the legal concepts underlying the law as to deser-
tion. The position is besides supported by authority. We
might usefully refer to the following passage in the judg-
ment of Willmer, L.J., in Brewer v. Brewer(1) where, ex-
plaining certain observations of Lord Macmillan in Pratt v.
Pratt (2), he said :
"It remains for consideration however, exactly
what Lord Macmillan meant when he spoke of the
husband ’making it plain’ to his deserting
wife that he will not
(1) [1961] 3 All. E.R. 957.
(2) [1939] A.C. 417, 420.
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receive her back. He cannot have meant, I
apprehend, that a deserting wife is entitled
to take advantage of any chance statement that
her husband may have made, irrespective of
whether it had any effect on her mind. It
seems to me that what Lord Macmillan must have
meant was that a deserted husband cannot
complain if what he has said or done has in
fact caused hi-, wife to desist from making
any attempt at reconciliation which she
otherwise would have made. If this view be
right, it becomes obvious at once that the
question whether the conduct of the husband
was such .is to bring the wife’s desertion to
an end cannot be treated, as counsel for the
wife (at any rate at one point of his
argument) appeared to invite us to treat it,
as an abstract question of law. It becomes
necessary to consider the facts of the
particular case, in order to ascertain what in
fact was the impact on the mind of the
deserting spouse of anything which was said
or done by the deserted spouse."
We should add that this expresses our own view of the legal
position.
We shall now proceed to consider the letter of the appellant
dated April 1, 1955, and its significance for the purposes
of the defence of the respondent in the light of these
principles. The questions that arise on this letter fall
into two broad classes : (1) The exact meaning and
construction of the expressions used in the letter, and
(2) its impact on the mind of the respondent.
As to the meaning of the letter the rival contentions are
these. According to the appellant the letter was merely the
outpourings of an angry and grievously injured husband who
found his wife persisting in keeping away from him and
expressing happiness at her stay in and movement from place
to place in foreign countries. In this connection the
expressions used in the letter were put to the appellant in
great detail during his cross examination and the burden of
his explanation was that he never intended to impute any
unchastity to the respondent. It is not necessary to set
out the entirety of the letter but we would make a few
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extracts for the purpose of judging whether the letter could
bear the interpretation which the appellant asserted was his
intention in writing that letter:
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"They (the appellant’s parents) have
overlooked all your faults and treated you
with love and kindness like their own daughter
and have made all possible efforts to raise
you up from your low turpitude and make you a
decent woman It is your perverted funny
notions of pleasure giving vent to your past
and present associations, both in India and
abroad, that are the root cause of all your
evil and irrational deeds. ... Just think how
often have I counseled you against your
unceasing pleasure hunt which has brought only
shame and misery to our whole family It is a
wonder that you find pleasure in leaving home,
leaving your husband, wandering from country
to country, leading reckless life under the
guise of being in the company of your
relations and uncles whom you find readily
available at every port. And you have gone SO
far in this direction, that you find yourself
unable to break your past links and get out of
the muddle created by you and seek pleasure
and happiness in your own home by being a
faithful and devoted wife In spite of all my
efforts, you have completely deserted me and
chosen the path of pleasure and perversion,at
any cost. You are only looking for some cloak
to cover your guilt and continue to live your
life of degradation with impunity. I refuse to
furnish you with that cloak and I refuse to be
drawn into your game."
As we have stated earlier, the appellant expressly
disclaimed in the witness box that he ever considered her
unchaste or that in that letter or otherwise he imputed
unchastity to her. The learned trial judge believed the
appellant’s testimony as to what he intended to convey by
this letter and was of the view that the contents were
reasonably capable of being understood in the manner
suggested by the appellant. We cannot say that this is not
a possible interpretation of the letter and that it must be
held that it was intended to impute unchastity to the wife.
We must, however, hasten to point out that the intention of
the writer is neither very relevant nor, of course, decisive
of the matter. The question is what the words were
reasonably capable of being understood, and if they have
been so understood it is no answer that the writer did not
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intend his words to have that meaning. In view of what we
are about to say, it would not be really necessary for us to
say whether, reasonably understood. the words would not
impute sexual immorality to the respondent, but we shall
assume that the learned Judges of the High Court were right
in their interpretation of the. letter and the insinuations
it contained. The question, however, is how she understood
and what her reactions were.
The next question for consideration therefore relates to the
impact of this letter on the respondent, for it is ulti-
mately that that would determine, in the present case the
legal effect of the conduct of the appellant in terminating
or not terminating the desertion that up to then continued.
As to this, the position stands thus : The evidence of the
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respondent was that she received the letter at Hong Kong,
and she stated :
"I read that a bit. On the next day I left
for Manila. .... There I was appraised of the
contents of the letter and then I was shocked
at the contents of the letter and my health
became worse at Manila."
The letter is -stated to have been received in the evening
and she was to leave Hong Kong for Manila at 10 a.m. the
next day. According to one portion of her evidence she read
a part of the letter on the day she received it but she had
no time to read the whole letter, but she corrected herself
later and stated that the entire letter was then read, but
that she understood only a portion of the letter on the day
it was received and the rest of it explained to her in
Manila. It was her cousin--one Khem Chand-who is said to
have been asked to read and explain the letter because she
did not understand fully its contents. This was at Hong
Kong and he read that letter during the night after he
returned home from office. Before he finished reading that
letter she said she went to bed. He was reading, that
letter till late that night. She, however, slept by then.
Khem Chand she said, promised to explain the contents the
next morning but there was no time 1eft for this as she left
for Manila that day. It is apparent from this state of
evidence that it did not have very much upon the respondent
or that she under-stood the letter as really charging her
with immorality. It’ is just possible
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that she understood its contents as merely an admonition ,by
the husband at her being away from him and at her conduct in
asking him to go over to Hong Kong instead -of returning to
him immediately, as he desired in his telegrams. She
apparently attached not much significance to this letter and
that is clear from the way in which she got the letter read
and explained to her partly at Hong Kong and the rest at
Manila. And this notwithstanding that her father was there
to assist her in understanding the contents of that letter
and its implications.
This is so far as the oral testimony of the respondent is
concerned, but possibly of more significance and of higher
evidentiary value than the inference to be drawn from the
statements in her deposition in Court is the reply that she
sent from Manila to this letter on April 12, 1955. It is
necessary to examine with some care the contents of this
reply. It is addressed to him.as ’My dearest husband’. It
consists of five paragraphs. In the first she acknowledges
as letter dated April 1, 1955. of the contents of that
letter those regarding which she deals in the 1st paragraph
are: (1) his statement that he had not received any letter
from her dated August 2, 1954 and (2) a denial of the fact
that she left his house without his knowledge and consent
and an assertion that he and his parents consented that she
should go and stay ’With her relations for a while. The
second paragraph is again taken up with the same matter and
repeats (1) that she .did not leave the house without his
knowledge and consent, and (2) she left the house only for
reasons of her health. The third paragraph states that her
health had improved but that she would like to stay a little
longer with her parents in order to improve it more and then
she would return to him and to her "dear son Ashok". The
next paragraph is concerned with denying the unfounded
accusations contained in his letter and these are
characterised as "merely the product of his hallucination"
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and that she would ignore them because they are not based
on truth and in the final paragraph she ends by repeating
that site was vacationing with her parents only for the
improvement of her health and for no other purpose and lie
would kindly allow her to stay with her parents
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a little longer for her welfare and advantage and she winds
up the letter by assuring him "As soon as my health is
completely improved I shall of course come back home to you
and to our son".
Now to the question as to what is the impact of the
appellant’s letter on the mind of the respondent. In the
face of this letter could it be said that she understood the
appellant’s letter as a justification for her to stay apart?
For this purpose it is not necessary to consider whether she
understood it as imputing unchastity to her or not. As we
have already pointed out, it is doubtful whether she did so.
If it were so it would not be reasonable for her to read the
letter at Hong Kong in part or not understanding it there
and not attaching any significance to it as an imputation of
a serious character against her morality. But in whatever
way she understood it, it is obvious that it did not have
any effect on her mind in the matter of persuading her or
impelling her to stay apart from her husband, for we find in
her reply repeated assertions that she intended to come back
to the husband. We do not, therefore, agree with the
learned judges of the High Court that the appellant’s letter
of April 1, 1955, would constitute an interruption of her
desertion which had commenced from February-May, 1954, by
its being a just cause for her to remain away from the
matrimonial home.
As already stated, the letter of April 12, 1955, was the
last letter which passed between the parties and though she
stayed abroad for nearly a year thereafter she did not write
to the appellant and even when she came to India in April,
1956, she did not go to her matrimonial home as she had
promised to do in this last letter of hers just referred to.
A point similar to the one dealt with by us in relation to
the telegram of the respondent dated June 24, 1955, and her
letter dated March 3, 1955, arising out of the statements
contained in them that she intended to return to the husband
on coming over to India and the effect of such a statement
in terminating the desertion has also to be considered with
reference to the promise to return to the husband contained
in this letter of hers dated April 12, 1955. As already
pointed out, if the offer to return was genuine and sincere
and was made with the intention of being
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kept and as indicative of a desire felt to return to the
matrimonial home it would constitute a break in the
desertion and thus disentitle the appellant to any relief
under s. 10(1) of the Act because in the face of such an
intention the desertion of two years duration could not be
established. We are, however, satisfied that the intention
expressed in this letter to return to the husband was not
genuine or sincere. This is shown beyond doubt by the
following facts: (1) She wrote no letter to the appellant
after April 12, 1955, right up to the date of the petition,
(2) she did not intimate to him about her arrival in India-a
fact strongly suggesting her disinclination to meet him and
to go to his house, (3) that even after she returned to
India nearly a year after her letter of April 12, 1955, she
did not go to her husband nor was any attempt made by her to
contact her husband through friends before the filing of the
petition. The facts therefore and her conduct outweigh any
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assertion contained in this letter and they convince us that
she did not entertain any genuine desire to return to her
husband’s home when she wrote those words in her letter to
him dated April 12, 1955.
It was not contested that if desertion started in February-
May, 1954, as we have found, and was not put an end to and
if no justifiable cause for the continuance of the desertion
was afforded by the appellant’s letter of April 1, 1955,
there was no other defence to the petition of the appellant
under s. 10(1) of the Act.
The result is that the appeal is allowed, the judgment of
the High Court reversed and the decree for judicial,
separation passed by the learned trial judge restored with
costs here and in the High Court.
SUBBA RAO J.-I regret my inability to agree. This appeal by
certificate presents a facet of the social and sociological
problem of a young Hindu woman landed by marriage in a joint
family and of her predicament therein. As Rajagopala
Ayyangar, J., has traced the course of the litigation, it is
not necessary to cover the ground overagain.
Two questions arise for consideration, namely, (1) whether
there was desertion by the respondent without reasonable
cause of her matrimonial home; and (2) whether the appellant
had prevented the respondent
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during the statutory period from bringing the desertion to
an end. Before I consider the evidence in the case, it will
be convenient to notice the relevant aspects of the law
pertaining to the doctrine of desertion. The Hindu Marriage
Act, 1955 (Act 25 of 1955), hereinafter called the Act,
codified the law in that regard. The material provisions of
the Act read thus : .
Section 10. (1) Either party to a marriage,
whether solemnized before or after the
commencement of this Act, may present a
petition to the District Court praying for a
decree for judicial separation on the around
that the other party-
(a) has deserted the petitioner for a
continuous period of not less than two years
immediately preceding the presentation of the
petition.
Explanation.-In this section, the expression
"desertion", with its grammatical variations
and cognate expressions, means, the desertion
of the petitioner by the other party to the
marriage without reasonable cause and without
the consent or against the wish of such
party,, and includes the willful neglect of
the petitioner by the other party to the
marriage."
Under this section a spouse can ask for judicial separation
if the other spouse has deserted her or him for a continuous
period of not less than two years. This provision introdu-
ces a revolutionary change in the Hindu law of marriage. It
is given retrospective effect. A spouse in India except in
some states, who never expected any serious consequences of
desertion, suddenly found himself or herself on May 18,
1955, in the predicament of his or her marriage being put in
peril. If by that date the prescribed period of two years
had run out, he or she had no locus penitential and could
retrieve the situation only by mutual consent. Section
10(1)(a) does not proprio vigore bring about dissolution of
marriage. It is a stepping stone for dissolution. On the
deserted spouse obtaining a decree for judicial separation,
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the said spouse can bring about divorce by efflux of time
under s. 13 (1) (viii) of the Act. The expression
"desertion" came under the judicial scrutiny of this Court
in Bipin Chander jaisinghbhai Shah v. Prabha
(1) [1956] S.C.R. 838.
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wati(1). There, the question arose under s. 3 (1)(d) of the
Bombay Hindu Divorce Act, 1947 (Bom. 22 of 1947)., This
Court, on the facts of that case, held that there was no
desertion. The said section read :
"(1) A husband or wife may sue for divorce on any of the
following grounds, namely....................
(d) that the defendant has deserted the plaintiff for a
continuous period of four years.
"Desertion" was defined in s. 2(b) in these terms:
"’Desert’ means to desert without reasonable cause and
without the consent or against the will of the spouse."
Sinha, J., as he then was, speaking on behalf of the Court
after considering the relevant textbooks and decisions on
the subject, summarized the law thus, at p. 851
"For the offence of desertion, so far as the
deserting spouse is concerned, two essential
conditions must be there, namely, (1) the
factum of separation, and (2) the intention to
bring cohabitation permanently to an end
(animus deserendi). Similarly two elements
are essential so far as the deserted spouse is
concerned : (1) the absence of consent, and
(2) absence of conduct giving reasonable cause
to the spouse leaving the matrimonial home to
form the necessary intention aforesaid. The
petitioner for divorce bears the burden of
proving those elements in the two spouses
respectively.
The learned judge dealt with the mode of putting an end to
the state of desertion as follows, at p., 852 :
"Hence, if a deserting spouse takes advantage
of the locus penitantiae thus provided by law
and decides to come back to the deserted
spouse by a bonafide offer of resuming the
matrimonial home with all the implications of
marital life, before the statutory p
eriod is
out or even after the lapse of that period,
unless proceedings for divorce have been
commenced, desertion comes to an end and if
the deserted spouse unreasonably refuses the
offer, the latter may be in desertion and not
the former."
Based on that reasoning the learned Judge proceeded to lay
down the duty of. the deserted spouse during the crucial
period
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"Hence it is necessary that during all the
period that there has been a desertion the
deserted spouse ’must affirm the marriage and
be ready and willing to resume married life on
such conditions as may be reasonable."
Adverting again to the burden of proof and the nature of
evidence required to prove desertion, the learned judge made
the following observations, at p. 852 :
"It is also well settled that in proceedings
for divorce the plaintiff must, prove the
offence of desertion like any other
matrimonial offence, beyond all reasonable
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doubt. Hence, though corroboration is not
required as an absolute rule of law, the
courts insist upon corroborative evidence,
unless its absence is accounted, for to the
satisfaction of the Court."
Collating the aforesaid observations, the view of this Court
may be stated thus : Heavy burden lies upon a petitioner who
seeks divorce on the ground of desertion to prove four
essential conditions, namely.’ (1) the factum of separation;
(2) animus deserendi; (3) absence of his or her consent; and
(4) absence of his or her conduct ’giving reasonable cause
to the deserting spouse to leave the matrimonial home. The
offence of desertion must be proved beyond any reasonable
doubt and as a rule prudence the evidence of the petitioner
shall be corroborated. In short this Court equated the
proof required in a matrimonial case to that in a criminal
case. I am bound by this decision. I would, therefore,
proceed to discuss the law from the point reached by this
Court in the said decision.
There is some controversy on the question on Whom the burden
of proof lies to establish that the deserting spouse has
just cause or not to leave the matrimonial home. The
judgment of this Court is clear and unambiguous and it
throws the burden on the petitioner seeking divorce.
This view is consistent with that expressed in leading
judgment of English Courts.
In Pratt v. Pratt(1) the House of Lords considered the said
aspect. Lord Macmillan stated, at p. 438, thus:
"In my opinion, what is required of a
petitioner for divorce on the ground of
desertion is proof that throughout th
e whole
course of 3 years the respondent
[1939] 3 All E.R. 437.
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has without cause been in
desertion.....................In fulfilling
its duty of determining whether,on the evi-
dence, a case of desertion without cause has
been proved, the Court ought not, in my
opinion, to leave out of account the attitude
of mind of the petitioner. if, on the facts,
it appears that a petitioning husband has made
it plain to his deserting wife that he will
not receive her back, or if he has repelled
all the advances which she may, have made
towards a resumption of married life, he
cannot complain that she has persisted without
cause in her desertion".
On the question of just cause, Lord Romer made some
pertinent remarks, at p. 443, which are relevant to the
present enquiry. There, as here, though under different
circumstances, the deserting spouse, the wife, after
previous correspondence did not call on her husband. In
-that context, Lord Romer observed:
It would, in my opinion, be quite unreasonable
to bold that the respondent, guilty though she
was of the serious matrimonial offence of
desertion, should be expected to present
herself at her husband’s door without any
knowledge of how she would be received, ’and
therefore at the risk of being subjected to
the indignity of having admission refused by
her husband or by one of his
servants............................It could
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not be expected that she should suddenly make
an unheralded entry into his house."
Though it was necessary, in order to put an end to her de-
sertion, for the wife to take some active step towards re-
turning to the matrimonial home, Lord Romer held that she
had taken such steps by writing letters and that the fact
that ’she. did not physically appear in the matrimonial home
did not make is any the less a just cause on her part.
In Dunn v. Dunn(1), Denning L.J., as he then was, laid down
the scope of burden of proof in such a case, at P-- 823,
thus:
"The legal burden throughout this case is on
the husband, as petitioner, to prove that his
wife deserted him without cause. To discharge
that burden, he relies on the fact that he
asked her to join him
(1) [1948] 2 All E.R. 822.
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and she refused. That is a fact from which
the court may infer that she deserted him
without cause, but it is not bound to do so.
Once he proves the fact of refusal, she may
seek to rebut the inference of desertion by
proving that she had just cause for her
refusal ; and indeed, it is usually wise for
her to do so, but there is no legal burden on
her to do so. Even if she does not
affirmatively prove just cause, the court has
still, at the end of the case, to ask itself :
Is the legal burden discharged? Has the hus-
band proved that she deserted him without
cause?"
This passage brings out the well known distinction between
legal burden and onus of proof. Legal burden always remains
on the petitioner ; and onus of proof shifts and is a
continuous process. But, as the learned Lord points out,
the court has to hold on the evidence whether the legal
burden to establish desertion without cause has been
established by the petitioner.
In Day v. Day(1), the husband petitioned for divorce on the
ground that his wife had deserted him. The wife relied on
the fact that the husband committed adultery and that,
therefore, the desertion was not without cause. The Court
held that the burden was upon the petitioning husband to
prove that his adultery was not the cause of his wife’s
desertion and that he had proved the same, as the facts
proved established that she had formed her intention not to
resume cohabitation independently of his adultery. The
legal position is stated thus, at p. 853 :
"On the facts of the present case that
involves the husband proving affirmatively
that the mind of the wife was not in any way
affected by her knowledge of the husband’s
adultery. Clearly the burden is a heavy one,
and doubtless in many cases it will be one
that a petitioner will not be able to
discharge."
In Brewer- v. Brewer(2), the Court of Appeal explained the
views expressed by Lord Macmillan and Lord Romer in Pratt v.
Pratt(1). Willmer, L.J. after quoting the observations of
Lord Macmillan in Peatt’s casr(3), proceeded to state:
(1) [1957] 1 All E.R. 848.
(2) [1961] 3 All E.R. 957.
(3) [1939] 2 All E.R. 437.
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"This passage, although not necessary for the
decision of that case, was expressly approved
and adopted by Lord Romer in Cohen v.
Cohen(1), and must, I think, be accepted as
authoritative having regard to the fact that
all the other members of the House expressed
their concurrence with Lord Romer."
The case-law here and in England throws the burden of proof
on the petitioning spouse to prove that desertion was
without cause.
Another aspect of the question may now be touched upon. The
definition of desertion under s. 10 of the Act, the argument
proceeds, is much wider than that under the English law or
under the Bombay Act considered by this Court. Emphasis is
laid upon the following words in the explanation to s. 10(1)
of the Act :
"includes the willful neglect of the petitioner by the other
party to the marriage."
The expression "includes", the argument proceeds, enlarges
the scope of the word "desertion", and takes in by de-
finition the conscious neglect on the part of the offending
spouse, without the requisite animus deserendi. This ar-
gument, if accepted, would impute an intention to the
Parliament, which was entering the field for the first time,
to bring about a revolutionary change not sanctioned even in
a country like England where divorce or separation for
desertion had long been in vogue. We would be attributing
to the Parliament an incongruity, for, in the first part of
the explanation it was importing all the salutary
restrictions on the right to Judicial separation. but in the
second part it would be releasing the doctrine, to a large
extent, of the said restrictions. By such a construction
the legislation would be made to defeat its own purpose. On
the other hand, the history of the doctrine of "desertion"
discloses some limitations thereon conceived in the
interests of society and the Parliament by the inclusive
definition couched in wide language could not have intended
to remove those limitations. The inclusive definition is
only intended to incorporate therein the doctrine of
"constructive desertion" known to English law and the
language is designedly made wide to cover the peculiar
circumstances of our society. In Rayden on Divorce,
(1) [1940] 2 All. E.R. 331, 335.
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7th Edn., the expression "constructive desertion" is
defined thus, at p. 155 :
"Desertion is not to be tested by merely
ascertaining which party left the matrimonial
home first. If one spouse is forced by the
conduct of the other to leave home it may be
that the spouse responsible for the driving
out is guilty of desertion. There is no
substantial difference between the case of a
man who intends to cease cohabitation and
leaves his wife, and the case of a man who
compels his wife by his conduct, with the same
intention, to leave him. This is the doctrine
of constructive desertion."
Adverting to the question of animus in the case of con-
structive desertion, the learned author proceeded to obser-
ve, at p. 156, thus :
"It is as necessary in cases of constructive
desertion to prove both the factum and the
animus on the part of the spouse charged with
the offence of desertion as it is in cases of
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simple desertion. The practical difference
between the two cases lies in the
circumstances which will constitute such
proof, for, while the intention to bring the
matrimonial consortium to an end exists in
both cases, in simple desertion there is an
abandonment, whereas in constructive desertion
there is expulsive conduct."
The ingredients of desertion as well as constructive
desertion are the same, namely, animus and factum, though in
one case there is actual abandonment and in the other there
is expulsive conduct. Under certain circumstances the
deserted spouse may even stay under the same roof or even in
the same bed-room. In our society, it is well known that in
many a home the husband would be guilty of expulsive conduct
towards his wife by completely neglecting her to the extent
of denying her all marital rights, but still the wife,
because of social and economic conditions, may continue to
live under the same roof. The words "willful neglect" in
the explanation were certainly designed to cover
constructive desertion in the English law. If so, it
follows that willful conduct must satisfy the ingredients of
desertion as indicated above. Hence, the appellant could
not take advantage of the inclusive definition unless he
established all the ingredients
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of constructive desertion, namely, animus, factum and want
of just cause.
There is yet another legal contention which may be disposed
of before I consider the facts. It is based on s. 9 of
the Act, which reads :
(1) when either the husband or the wife has,
without reasonable excuse, withdrawn from the
society of the other, the aggrieved party may
apply by petition to the District Court, for
restitution of conjugal rights and the Court
on being satisfied of the truth of the
statements made in such petition and that
there is no legal ground why the application
should not be granted, may decree restitution
of conjugal rights accordingly.
(2) Nothing shall be pleaded in answer to a
petition for restitution of conjugal rights
which shall not be a ground for judicial
separation or for nullity of marriage or for
divorce."
The contention on behalf of the appellant is that s. 9(2) of
the Act affords a dictionary for the expression "without
reasonable cause" and that it shows that reasonable cause in
the explanation could only, be that cause which will be a
legal ground for the offending spouse to resist the petition
by the other for restitution of conjugal rights. It is
further contended that under cl. (2) thereof such legal
ground could only be the legal ground on which there could
be judicial separation or nullity of marriage and,
therefore, the reasonable cause in the explanation to s. 10
should also be only such grounds like cruelty etc. There is
a fallacy in this argument. An illustration will bring it
out. A husband files an application against the wife for
restitution of conjugal rights under s. 9 of the Act. The
wife can plead, inter alia, that the husband is not entitled
to restitution of conjugal rights as lie has deserted her
without reasonable cause. Section 9(2) of the Act does not
afford any dictionary for ascertaining the meaning. of the
expression "reasonable cause". We have to fall back again
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for its meaning on the principles laid down by decided cases
and the facts of each case. That apart, s. 9 and s. 10 deal
with different subjects-one with restitution of conjugal
rights and the other with judicial separation. We cannot
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import the provisions of the one into the other, except in
so far as the sections themselves provide for it. The ex-
planation does not expressly or by necessary implication
equate reasonable cause with a legal ground for sustaining a
plea against an action for restitution of conjugal rights.
Indeed, it is a limitation on one of such legal grounds.
There is an essential distinction between the scope of the
two sections. The Legislature even in socially advanced
countries lean,, on the side of sanctity of marriage ;
therefore, under s. 9 of the Act, our Parliament imposes
stringent conditions to non-suit a claim for restitution of
conjugal rights. On the same reasoning, under s. 10 of the
Act, it does not permit separation of spouses on the ground
of desertion except when the desertion is without reasonable
cause. The expression "reasonable cause" must be so
construed as to bring about a union rather than separation.
The said expression is more comprehensive than cruelty and
such other causes. It takes in every cause which in a given
situation appears to be reasonable to a Court justifying a
spouse to desert the other spouse. This view is consistent
with the English law on the subject. In Halsbury’s Laws of
England, 3rd Edn., Vol. 12, the author says, in para. 484,
at p. 257 thus :
"Any matrimonial offence, if proved, is a
ground for the other spouse withdrawing from
cohabitation. Further conduct which falls
short of a matrimonial offence, that is
conduct not amounting to cruelty or adultery,
may excuse desertion."
In Edwards v. Edwards(1) this idea was succinctly brought
out. There it was stated that conduct short of cruelty or
other matrimonial offence, might afford cause for desertion.
So too, in an earlier decision in Yeatman v. Yeatman(2) it
was held that reasonable cause was not necessarily a
distinct matrimonial offence on which a decree or judicial
separation or dissolution of marriage could be founded. I
am, therefore. of the opinion that s. 9 of the Act does not
throw any light on the construction of the expression
"without reasonable cause" and that whether there is a
reasonable cause or not in a given case
(1) L.R [1950] P. 8.
(2 ) L.R. [1868] 1. P. & D. 489.
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shall be decided only on the evidence and the peculiar cir-
cumstances of that case.
The result of the said discussion may be stated thus The
legal burden is upon the petitioning spouse to establish by
convincing evidence beyond any reasonable doubt that the
respondent abandoned him or her without reasonable cause.
The petitioner must also prove that there was desertion
throughout the statutory period and there was no bona
fide attempt on the respondent’s part to return to the
matrimonial home and that the petitioner did not prevent the
other spouse by his or her action by word or conduct from
cohabitation. The expression "willful neglect" included in
the section does not introduce a new concept in Indian law
unknown to the English law, but is only an affirmation of
the doctrine of constructive desertion. The said doctrine
is not rigid but elastic and without doing violence to the
principles governing it, it can be applied to the peculiar
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situations that arise in an Indian society and home. No
inspiration could ’be derived from s. 9 of the Act in order
to construe the scope of the expression "without reasonable
cause" and whether there is a reasonable cause or not is a
question of fact to be decided on the facts of each case.
I shall now proceed to consider the facts of the case. The
main question is whether the appellant has proved that the
respondent deserted him within the meaning of the term as
explained above. To ascertain that fact from a correct
perspective it is necessary to notice broadly the marital
life of the couple since their marriage. The appellant is
an M.B.,B.S. and a medical practitioner carrying on his
profession in Bombay. He belongs to a well-to-do family,
his father being a businessman. The family is comparatively
old-fashioned in habits and customs. The respondent is the
daughter of one Vasanmal, a businessman, who had -branches
in Singapore, Hongkong, Jakarta and Manila. Though he spent
most of. his time in foreign countries in connection with
his business, he always left his family in India and he used
to visit his family in India whenever he could conveniently
do so. Though the learned counsel for the appellant
attempted to argue that the members of Vasanmal’s family,
including the respondent, were leading a fast life, there is
no-
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thing on the record, except some vague suggestions here and
there, to support the said argument. It may be accepted
that the respondent’s father is comparatively a richer man
than the appellant. On November 10, 1946, the appellant and
the respondent were married at Hyderabad (Sind). On July
19, 1947, a male child was born to them and was named Ashok.
Unfortunately for the couple, their even course of life was
disturbed by the partition of India. In October, 1947, they
had to migrate, as many others did, from Pakistan to India.
Though the respondent’s father was maintaining a family
house at Lonavla, about 70 miles from Bombay, the members of
the appellant’s family including the respondent, went to the
Colombo and were staying with the appellant’s mother’s
brother. In or, about December, 1947, the appellant, along
with his mother, left Ceylon for Bombay leaving the
respondent and appellant’s sisters in his uncle’s house at
Colombo. The respondent’s version is that, as her sisters-
in-law ill-treated her, she was not happy there and
therefore she had to leave that place, along with her child,
in January, 1948, to her parents’ house at Lonavla. At the
end of January, 1948, the appellant and his mother went to
Lonavla and brought the respondent to Bombay. At the end of
the first week of February, 1948, the respondent went back
to Lonavla and came back to Bombay in or about August or
September, 1948, and was living with the appellant for about
3 months. In or about that time, the respondent’s parents
shifted their residence from Lonavla to Poona and settled
down there. Poona is about 100 miles from Bombay. In
December, 1948, the respondent visited her parents at Poona
and returned back to Bombay in February, 1949. According to
her from February 26, 1954, she was living with the
appellant in his house at Bombay and she a permitted to go
and see her parents ; but according to the a pellant, she
was going now and then- to her parents’ house. Much is made
of her frequent visits to her parents’ home, but it is
ignore that the frequent visits were only made during the
difficult days the evacuees were passing through. But the
fact remains that from 1949 for about 4 years she was
continuously living with her husband in his house.
It is common case that the couple were not happy in
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their married life. The husband and wife give their ver-
sions of the reasons for this estrangement. The husband, as
P.W. 1, attempts to throw the blame wholly on the wife He
says that the respondent was disrespectful and indifferent
to him, that she was proud and arrogant, that she refused to
wear the clothes which were made for her by his parents on
the ground that they were made of inferior stuff, that she
was very disobedient and disrespectful to his parents, that
she used to leave for her parents’ house very often and
sometimes without informing him, that she had no love or
affection for him, that when she was in her parents’ house
she used to play cards, and drank at the parties given by
her father, that she did not like to have children and that
she was rude and insulting in her behaviour towards him and
his parents. In the cross-examination lie admits that lie
saw her drinking only twice or thrice at her father’s
parties, but none of his friends saw her drinking nor did
she drink from 1947. He further admits that he saw her
playing cards without stakes, but he had not seen personally
her playing cards after 1946 or 1947. He admits that the
relationship between his mother and the respondent’s parents
was not cordial. He describes her acts of disobedience
thus:
"On the next day of our marriage, it was
customary that she should put on the saree
which we got made for her. We had such a
saree already prepared. She refused to put on
such a saree saying that the same was too
inferior to be put on by her. She on many oc-
casions ordered him to do certain things for
her. For example, on one day I told her that
she should not spread her sarees on the sofa
but she should keep the sarees wrapped and
keep them in a cupboard. On the next day the
same thing was repeated, namely, that she kept
her saree spread on the sofa. I called her
and requested her to wrap it. She asked me as
to why I should not do the same. I protested
and told her that I was speaking to her in a
polite way and why she should order me to do
things, whereupon she told me that her
friends’ husbands even do boot-polish and why
I should not do even such trifling things."
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A perusal of his evidence discloses that though he is an
educated man he belongs to the old, school and takes offence
for the most trivial things which another would ignore. A
perusal of his entire evidence also discloses that he is
highly respectful to his parents and that he was particular
that his wife also should be obedient to them and
particularly to his mother. Though the learned counsel for
the appellant painted the respondent in his opening address
as a highly sophisticated woman, addicted to all the evils
of drink, dance etc., the evidence of the appellant, even if
entirely accepted, shows that she is not highly educated,
that she has not been ad. dieted to any bad habits such as
drink, playing cards, smoking etc., and that she was living
in the family house of her husband, though now and then she
was going to her parents’ house. ID the cross-examination
the appellant also stated that he had to take the respondent
in 1953 or 1954 to Dr. Marfatia, a psychiatrist, for
treatment, indicating thereby that was under some nervous or
mental strain.
Now let us see what the respondent says about her life in
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her husband’s house. She says that at the time of her
marriage her father gave a dowry of Rs. 25,000.00 and
several presents and gifts, including clothes worth about
Rs. 10,000.00, but her mother-in-law was not satisfied with
the amount of dowry given by her father ; that her parents-
in-law would not ordinarily permit her to visit her parents’
house, that whenever such permission was asked for they used
to refuse a number of times, but would allow her to go only
once in a way ; that she, was abused for trivial things,
such as when handkerchief’& were missing ; that the
treatment of her mother-in-law and sisters-in-law from the
beginning was cruel and when they made complaints to the
appellant, he used to abuse her; that in Ceylon also they
ill-treated her; that between 1949 and 1954 she was allowed
to go to her parents’ house only on two occasions, that is,
once on the wedding of one of her sisters and the second
time on the wedding of her cousin and during those
occasions . she stayed with them only for a few days; that
she’" refused permission to go to Poona even when her uncle
died; that her parents-in-law,, not only said many
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dirty things of her but they did not allow her to speak to
her son ; that when her father-in-law scolded her son, he
started weeping and she was scolded for interfering : that
this incident happened in 1953 and that since then her
husband ceased to talk with her ; that she was also
prevented by her mother-in-law from doing any work for her
husband or for her son, that she was also beaten by her
husband sometimes ; that she was not allowed to see her
child when he was ill; that in 1951 she heard that her
husband attempted to remarry and even asked her to sign a
paper giving her consent for him to do so that she was made
to sleep on a bench in the drawing room till about the year
1952 and thereafter on the floor as her mother-in-law did
not provide her with a bed. Her evidence discloses that she
had no freedom in her husband’s house, that she was abused
and insulted by her parents-in-law and sisters-in-law, that
she was not given the usual comforts which she expected in
her husband’s home, that she was not allowed to look after
her husband and her child, that the husband took the side of
his mother whenever there was trouble between her and her
mother-in-law. There may be some exaggeration in this
version, but by and large this evidence fits in what gene-
rally happens in an old-fashioned house where a girl with
modern upbringing goes to stay as a daughter-in law of the
house. It may therefore be accepted that she was lead,rig a
miserable life in her husband’s house and she must have been
under a terrible nervous strain.
What does the father of the respondent, who was painted as
villain of the piece, say about this unfortunate situation
in which his daughter was placed? Whatever may be said
about him, his evidence discloses that he is very much
attached to his daughter and he attempted to do what an
affectionate father could possibly do in the circumstances.
He supports -the evidence given by his daughter in regard to
dowry and the reluctance of her parents-in-law to send her
to his house whenever he requested the them to do so and
also he speaks to the complaint made to him by his daughter
about the ill-treatment meted out to her by her in-laws and
also the want of cordiality between his family and the
family of the appellant. I have gone through his evidence
carefully
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He does not impress me as one who was out to wreck the life
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of his daughter out of pride or anger, but a loving father
who tried his best to make her happy and to reconcile the
couple, if possible. Whenever there was trouble he tried to
persuade them to live together and whenever she was unhappy
he tried to take her to his home and give her the necessary
warmth of love and affection.
Neither the mother-in-law nor the father-in-law nor the
sisters-in-law were examined in the case. If the mother in-
law had been examined, more details could have elicited, but
unfortunately she was kept back, in my opinion, for obvious
reasons.
The said evidence broadly gives the picture of the res-
pondent’s unhappy life in her husband’s house and the mental
strain she was putting up there.
In those circumstances in the month of November, 1953,
respondent’s father came to India and was very anxious to
take her to his house at Poona and thereafter, with him, to
foreign countries for a short time to enable her to recoup
her health. With that object, the father approached the
appellant’s family cautiously and through mediators to at
their permission. He says, in his evidence, that after he
came to India he met the respondent at her husband’s place
of residence and observed that she was very pale, that she
had lost weight and appeared to be much worried and unhappy.
He asked the appellant and his parents to allow her to be
taken to Poona, but the permission was not granted. Two or
three months thereafter, he again came to Bombay two or
three times and made similar requests, but they were all
turned down. On one occasion, the respondent described to
him her miserable condition under her husband’s roof and be
consoled her that he would get her the permission to visit
him. He requested one Manganmal to intercede on his behalf
with the appellant’s father and get his permission to take
the respondent to his house and thereafter abroad for
recoupment of health. About a week thereafter, Manganmal
told him that he had seen the appellant’s father and made
the request on his behalf, but the appellant’s father wanted
to confer with his wife and so he asked him to see him again
a week thereafter. A week thereafter, he saw the appel-
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lant’s father and repeated the request. The appellant’s
father requested him to see him 3 or 4 days thereafter. He
went to him again, when the appellant’s father gave the
necessary permission. The witness promised to go to him on
February 26, 1954 to fetch his daughter. He went there at
4.30 p.m. on that day and left ,’or Poona by the Deccan
Queen at about 5.30 p.m. on the same day. At the time when
he went to appellant’s house to fetch the respondent, the
appellant’s father and mother were present, but the
appellant was not there. The respondent took the permission
of her parents-in-law and accompanied him. This version is
natural. It is unthinkable that a man of the status of
respondent’s father would carry away his daughter from her
husband’s house without taking the permission of her husband
or her parents-in-law. It is not likely that the respondent
would have run away from the house of her husband in the
absence of her husband and parents in-law taking away the
jewels with her as was suggested on behalf -of the
appellant. There is nothing in the crossexamination worth
the name to belie the version given by this witness. It was
the most natural thing any father in the position of the
respondent’s father would do in the said circumstances. I
do not see any Justification to reject his evidence. The
respondent in her evidence supports the evidence given by
her father and, in addition, she says that on February 26,
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1954, she took the permission of her husband before leaving
the place. She asked him to allow her to take-her son, but
lie refused to give the permission. It is said that while
she said that her husband was in the house, her father said
that he was not there. But she clearly says in her evidence
that her husband was in another room and that she went to
that room to take his permission. Obviously, the husband
was not willing to face his father-in-law. Manganmal, who
interceded on behalf of the respondent’s father with the
appellant’s father, gives evidence as D.W. 3. He is the
Managing Director of Chotirmall & Co., with branches in
India and in foreign countries. He is a friend of the res-
pondent’s father. He corroborates the evidence of the
respondent’s father. He says in his evidence that he went
to the appellant’s house and asked his father to allow the
respondent to stay with her father while he was
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in India, as, she had not been to her father’s house for
years. In the cross-examination it was suggested that he
was not a friend of the appellant’s father, that he, along
with others, was a co-trustee with Kanayalal, a sonin-law of
the appellant’s father, of Nanikram’s trust, and that in the
dispute that was raised by Kanayalal’s father, Nanikram, in
respect of the subject-matter -of the trust, Kanayala was
supporting his father whereas Manganmal was supporting the
trust. He admits that he does not claim to be a friend of
the appellant’s father and that there was conflict of views
between him and Kanayalal in respect of the trust, but adds
that on that account there was no lack of cordiality between
himself and the appellant’s father. He is a respectable
witness. He gave straightforward answers to the questions
put to him. He did, not support the respondent’s father
completely in that he did not say that he asked for
permission for the respondent’s father taking the respondent
to foreign countries. Presumably the further request was
made by the respondent’s father himself and not by this wit-
ness. If he had come to lie in the witness-box, he would
have added the further request also. There is nothing
unusual in the respondent’s father requisitioning the
services of this gentleman in preference to others more
close to the appellant’s father, for this witness is a
respectable man and very well known to him and in A position
and was also willing,, to intercede on his behalf. I do not
see any reason why the evidence of this witness should be
rejected.
As against this evidence, the appellant says that on
February 26, 1954, he was not present when the respondent
left his house, that no one, except the maid-servant was
present in the house when the respondent left the house,
that in the evening at about 6 O’clock he discovered that
the respondent had left his house leaving some message with
the maid-servant and taking away all her jewels and valuable
clothes. He further says that he wrote some letters to his
wife soon thereafter, but he did not receive any reply from
her. But this was denied by the respondent; and there is
nothing except his word for this. This is a remarkable
story. If his wife had left him when nobody was present in
the house, he would not have taken
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it so philosophically as he asks us to believe. On his own
showing, he went to Poona only two or three months
thereafter. He does not even tell us what was the message
that she left with the maid-servant. The maid-servant was
not examined. Neither his father nor his mother nor his
sister were put in the witness-box. When three witnesses,
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the respondent, her father and a friend of her father, defi-
nitely gave evidence that the appellant’s parents were ap-
proached and that they gave their consent, it was the duty
of the appellant to examine them. No doubt some sort of
explanation was given that the father was in Japan, but none
in respect of his mother or the maid-servant. When the
burden was upon the appellant to establish desertion, it is
strange indeed that he should have thought fit to keep back
the best evidence from the witness- box. When the
respondent and her father depose that: they took the consent
of the appellant’s parents and if the parents of the
appellant did not choose to come to the witness-box to deny
it, a court ordinarily should accept the evidence of the
father and the daughter unless their evidence is ex facie
unnatural or -inherently improbable. But that cannot be
said in this case, for what the respondent’s father is said
to have done is the most natural in the circumstances.
It is said that the City Civil. Judge had seen the res-
pondent’s father, Manganmal and the respondent in the
witness-box and he did not accent their evidence and that,
therefore, the High Court should not have taken a different
view. On this aspect of the case, after considering the
evidence of the witnesses, the High Court says thus
"The parents of the petitioner were available
to give evidence in this case. but they have
not been examined: nor has any explanation
been given why the maidservant with whom a
message was left by the opponent when she left
the house, has not been examined in the case.
We are left in this case with the two dia-
metrically opposite version of the two
interested parties:.......... Having regard to
these circumstances, we are of the view that
the departure of the opponent from the house
of the petitioner was, if not with his express
permission, with his consent and full know-
ledge though such consent was given on
account, of
Some exasperation on his part."
I entirely agree with this view. It is consistent with the
evidence given by the respondent’s witnesses and also with
the circumstances of the case and subsequent conduct of the
parties. The appellant and his parents must have given the
consent, though not willingly, either because of the
importunities of the respondent’s father or because of, the
social pressure put oft them through the intervention of a
respectable outsider. But they did not like the
respondent’s parents and therefore they did not like the
respondent going to their house. It was a permission
reluctantly given and she was afraid that it would be wit&
draw.-Li. That is why there was no correspondence between
the couple during all the days she was staying at Poona and
she did not even meet the appellant or his parents when she
was boarding the ship at Bombay. I would therefore, bold
that the respondent left her matrimonial home with the
permission of the appellant and his parents for the purpose
of staying with her father at Poona and thereafter to leave
for foreign countries for short stay to recoup her health.
Strong reliance is placed upon an incident that is alleged
to have taken place in May 1954. According to the
appellant, he and his friend, Dr. Lulla, went to Poona to
persuade her to come back to his house, but she definitely
told, them that she would never return to his house. It is
said that this incident would show that she had decided to
leave him permanently. In the petition this May incident
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was not specifically ’mentioned nor was it stated that it
afforded a cause of action. There was no mention of the
appellant and his friend Dr. Lulla going to her and her,
stating to them that she would never return to his house.
Before the High Court the learned counsel appearing for the
appellant did not seek to rely upon this meeting 2nd the
reply alleged to have been given by the respondent as
furnishing a cause of action for founding a claim for relief
of judicial separation. This incident was relied upon: only
in support of the appellant’s case that the respondent, was
intransigent throughout and was unwilling to go back: to the
petitioner. Indeed, the learned counsel appears to admit
that the evidence of the appellant and Dr. Lulla was not
clear as to what was the precise question asked and
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what was the exact answer given by the respondent. It
would, therefore, be seen that this incident did not loom
large either in the pleadings or in the arguments before the
High Court. But it became a sheet-anchor of the appellant’s
case before us. Let me, therefore, consider this aspect of
the case in some detail.
The appellant says in his evidence that he went to Poona
along with Dr. Lulla towards the end of May 1954, that he
saw the respondent at Poona and inquired of her to why she
left his house secretly and that she told him that she had
decided not to come back to him. This is interested
evidence and is inconsistent with my finding that she left
his house with his consent as well as with the consent of
his parents. His evidence is supported by the evidence of
Dr. Lulla. But the respondent contradicts this evidence.
She denies the incident altogether. She is also A
interested witness. Dr. Lulla, as D.W.3, says that he went
to Poona along with the appellant, that the appellant tiled
to persuade the respondent to come back to him, that
thereafter he also tried to persuade her to come back to the
appellant, but she told them both that she had made up her
mind not to go back for ever. He is a doctor with a fairly
good practice and a friend of the appellant. But his cross-
examination discloses that he did not ask the respondent why
she left the appellant, that he was with the respondent at
Poona only for a few minutes, that he could not recollect
what the appellant told the respondent actually and that she
only stated that she was not prepared to come back to the
appellant for ever. It also shows that they went to Poona
without any intimation, that they had decided to meet her
alone, that they thought that they could persuade her in a
few minutes’ time to come back to the appellant, and that,
therefore, when they’ left for Poona they did not make any
arrangements for the next day, for they expected to return
back by the midnight train. This evidence is attacked on
many grounds. It is said that Dr. Lulla is a friend of the
appellant and, therefore, he went to him in getting rid of
his wife as the appellant was not happy with her. It is
pointed out that if this incident had happened, this would
have been mentioned in the earlier correspondence, in the
notice issued and in the plaint
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filed. It is also argued that his entire evidence was arti-
ficial and appears to be improvised for the occasion, for
the way he went about the business appears to be very
casual. It is asked whether Dr. Lulla, who was going on a
serious attempt of reconciliation, would go to Poona without
the appellant informing the respondent or her father that
they were coming if his intention was to meet her alone, how
did he expect that her parents would not be there when he
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went? And how did he also think that the estrangement that
was prolonged could have been put an end to in a few
minutes? If he was serious about it as he pretends he was,
he would have gone there with preparations for a stay of one
or two days after making necessary arrangements in respect
of his professional work. There is much to be said for this
argument. I have come across in my experience highly
respected persons lying, in the witness-box to help a friend
or save one from a trouble. But the City Civil Judge
accepted his evidence. The High Court says about his
evidence thus:
"The learned trial judge appears to have been
considerably impressed by the testimony of Dr.
Lulla. He regarded Dr. Lulla as an
independent person who was not likely ’to tell
an untruth to support the case of the
petitioner. The learned judge also took the
view, having regard to the contradictory
statements made by the opponent in her
evidence that the testimony of the opponent
was not reliable. Sitting in appeal it will
be difficult or us to ignore the appreciation
of evidence by the learned trial judge. It
must, however, be observed that Dr. Lulla was
deposing to an incident which took place about
three years prior to the date on which he gave
evidence, and he did not claim to remember the
exact words in which the conversation took
place between the petitioner and the opponent
or between the petitioner and himself. Dr.
Jethmqlani, who appears on behalf of the
petitioner, does not seek to rely upon this
meeting and the replies alleged to have been
given by the opponent as furnishing a cause of
action for founding a claim to relief for
judicial separation. .. .. ...... in the
absence of evidence as to what precisely were
the questions put to and the answers given by
the opponent, it is difficult to hold, even on
the view that
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there was in the month of May 1954 a meeting
between the petitioner and Dr. Lulla on the
one hand and the opponent on the other as
alleged by the petitioner, that the opponent
had in unmistakable terms informed the
petitioner and Dr. Lulla that she had no
desire to return at any time to the
matrimonial home."
This finding appears to me to be couched in euphemistic
terms. Though the learned judges were not inclined to
disturb the finding of the learned trial judge that Dr.
Lulla met the respondent along with the appellant, they were
not willing to accept his evidence that she told them that
she would not return to the matrimonial home for ever. I
feel a real doubt whether the appellant and Dr. Lulla met
the respondent at all. But let me assume for the purpose of
this case, as the High Court was inclined to assume, that
they went there. But Dr. Lulla admits in his evidence that
he did not remember the exact words used by the respondent
in speaking to the appellant; if so, he could not have also
remembered the exact words used by her in answering the
appellant’s question. Afterall the emphasis is on the
solitary word "ever". The witness was speaking to an
incident that took place about 3 years before he gave
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evidence and in respect of a conversation that took place
for a few minutes. It is not advisable to rely upon his
memory in regard to the words alleged to have been used by
the respondent, particularly when he comes to give evidence
on behalf of a friend when the tendency would be to give the
necessary twist to a conversion of which one could not
remember the exact words. The High Court as Well as the
learned Advocate, who appeared for the appellant in the High
Court, did not, rightly, rely upon the phraseology used in
the alleged conversation between the appellant and the
respondent. Even if the incident had taken place, it fits
in with my earlier finding, namely, -that the respondent’s
father had taken the permission of the appellant’s parents,
though given with reluctance. The appellant might have had
second thoughts and intended to go back on the consent and
to persuade the respondent to come back to his home and not
leave India. With that intention he might have taken his
friend Dr. Lulla to Poona, where the respondent was living.
She might have refused to return
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as the appellant was going back on his consent. She must
have been obviously very angry and must have curtly refused
to come back. Even if she had used the word "ever"-which I
believe is only a gloss added to her statement intentionally
or by lapse of memory-it must have been said in a huff. If
every statement made by a spouse in a huff in a short
conversation with her husband were taken in its face value,
many a home would be broken. I cannot, therefore, give any
value to the evidence of Dr. Lulla. I would hold that it is
very doubtful whether this incident had taken place, that
even if it did, the evidence given by Dr. Lulla could not be
taken to be a reproduction of the actual words used by the
respondent, and that, even if she had used those words, it
was only a statement made in a huff in a short interview and
could not be taken as a final word on the subject as to
compel a court to hold that she deserted her husband without
reasonable cause.
Some emphasis is also made on her conduct in not meeting her
husband or his.parents when she came to Bombay to board the
ship and also on her not giving her husband’s house as the
address in the relevant papers prepared for the journey. It
was argued that the place where she was staying at Bombay
was very near to that of her husband and it is unthinkable
that she would not have gone there, if she was going abroad
with permission, to see her husband or his parents or her
child. This argument misses the real point. Here we are
considering the case of a wife who was ill-treated in her
husband’s house and who, at the instance of her father and
his friend, got reluctant permission from her husband and
parents-in-law and if Dr. Lulla’s evidence were true, the
appellant went back on his consent and was trying to prevent
her from going with her father. In such a situation it is
impossible to expect an unfortunate woman like the
respondent to create more unpleasantness to herself by going
to her husband’s house before departure and to take the risk
of spoiling her planned holiday. The fact that her
husband’s address was not given in the relevant travel
papers could not be attributed to her, for they must have
been prepared in usual course at the instance of the
gentleman who was helping them in that regard. If once it
was accepted that she deserted her husband permanently,
these circumstances
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may have relevance, but once it was conceded that she was
going with the permission of her husband, though unwillingly
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given, this conduct would fall in a piece with the
respondent’s case. I would, therefore, not give much value
to such circumstances in the situation in which the
respondent was placed. The respondent left Bombay on July
7, 1954, for the Far East with her father. Much was made
about her leaving India with her father. IF she had eloped
with a stranger, no doubt that would be a different matter.
But here a father was taking his daughter to give her a
holiday so that she may improve her health. By taking her
away for short time from the oppressive surroundings which
affected her health,I do not see any justification for the
comment that she had deserted her husband. It must also be
remembered that the respondent’s father was not living with
his family in the Far East. His wife and children have all
along been in India. He was taking the respondent only for
a temporary sojourn; and what is wrong in a father taking
his daughter for a holiday in those circumstances ? If he
had taken the appellant’s or his parents’ consent, it was
not suggested that there was anything wrong in her so going.
If lie or his daughter did not take such a consent, it might
be an improper or an inadvisable thing to do. But such a
conduct in the case of a wife leaving with her father
temporarily to a foreign country as an escape from an
oppressive atmosphere cannot be described as reprehensible
even by a Hindu society; much less can it be treated as a
desertion. It was a natural reaction to an extraordinary
situation. She might have known that her conduct would
anger her husband, but she would not have thought that it
would be a permanent obstacle in their relationship. Be it
as it may, I have already found that she left with her
father with the consent of the appellant and his father, and
that even if the appellant subsequently retracted from his
consent, her departure might be only improper, but could not
conceivably amount to legal desertion.
Till now I was considering only the oral evidence. But
hereafter we come across unimpeachable documentary evidence
which shows the attitude of the couple to each other. I
shall proceed to consider the documentary evidence on the
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assumption favourable to the appellant, namely, that he,
along with Dr. Lulla, went to Poona in May 1954, retracted
his permission given earlier, and persuaded her to come back
to the matrimonial home, but she refused to do so and left
with her father for foreign Countries.
I am definitely of the view that in -,he circumstances
narrated above the exact words used by her could not be
field to have been proved by the vague oral evidence of Dr.
Lulla and that, even if she had expressed herself strongly
in a buff, such expression could not in the circumstances
-be considered to be decisive of her determination to leave
the matrimonial home for ever. She left for the Far East on
July 7, 1954. Within a fortnight from that date, on July
20, 1954, the appellant gave a cable to the respondent to
the following effect
"Extremely surprised at your suddenly secretly
leaving India without my knowledge and consent
return immediately first plane."
On July 22/23, 1954, as soon as the respondent
received the cable from the appellant, she
gave a cable in reply thus
"Returning within few months".
On July 24, 1954, the appellant gave another
cable to the respondent to the following
effect :
"You must return immediately."
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Pausing here for a moment, let me recapitulate the position.
If the respondent definitely told the appellant and Dr.
Lulla that she bad given him up and that she would not
return to the matrimonial home, why did the appellant send a
cable telling her that he was surprised at her secretly
leaving India and asking her to return immediately? And why
did she reply that she would return in a few months?. The
cable given by the appellant is more consistent with the
fact that neither of them understood that she had left him
for ever. Indeed, the cable reflected his anger on her
departure along with her father, because, though permission
was given earlier, he did not like her to go. Whatever
ambiguity there may be, her immediate reply was inconsistent
with her determination to leave him for ever, unless we
assume, as we are asked to do, that the cable ’was a link in
the chain of the plan conceived by her and her father to
resist an action that might be taken by the. husband in a
court of law. In July 1954
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what was the action which the appellant could have taken and
what was the defence, if such an action was taken, that
could be sustained on the basis of this cable? At that time
the Act was not passed. The Act was passed in 1955 and came
into force on May 18, 1955. Therefore, the only action
which the husband could have taken ’Linder the law, as it
then stood, was to file a suit for restitution of conjugal
rights, and this cable could not possibly be a defence
against such an action. If she wanted to join him again she
could have submitted to the decree. The Bombay Hindu
Divorce Act, 1947, may not have any extra-territorial
operation. Even if it has, four years of desertion had to
run out before she could be divorced; and there was no
particular urgency for her to create any eviedence at that
stage. To may this cable is destructive of tile case of the
appellant that she left him for ever. His reply cable also
is only consistent with the fact that there was no break
between them.
Now, I come to a letter dated August 2, 1954, over which
there is some controversy, the appellant alleging that it
was a forged one and the respondent stating that it was ,a
draft of the letter she sent to her husband. It reads
" My dear husband,
Darling I received your two telegrams, copies
of which enclosed herewith.
I immediately cabled you that I shall be.
returning within few months, however I really
feel surprised why you want me return to
Bombay by first plane without any reason.
Dear I was particularly pained to read that I
have suddenly and secretely left the place
without your consent. What has prompted you
to write this I really don’t understand. Dear
how came this change. You know I was not
keeping good health and considerably gone down
in spirit and weight for reasons which I (10
not like to discuss here since you are fully
aware of it. It was you who suggested that I
should go over and stay at my father’s place
and it was at your suggestion that I did so.
You were fully aware that I was accompanying
my father to Singapore for a few months for a
change and you gave consent As soon as I feel
better I shall return to Bombay.
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1 hope yourself, Ashok and all the other
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family members are 0. K. Give my loves to
Ashok and Best regards to Mother and Father.
Yours forever,
Meena."
The respondent, in her examination-in-chief,
says:-
"I had written a letter dated 2nd August 1954
to my husband, a copy whereof has been
preserved by me, I produce the copy of the
letter dated 2nd August 1954."
That was not objected to and the copy of the letter was put
in and marked as Ex. No. 4. In the cross-examination there
is some confusion, but she broadly stated that her father
dictated to her the letter, that the said letter was typed,
that she copied from that typed letter and that Ex. 4 is
that typed letter. The father in his cross-examination,
deposes that the respondent had written a letter dated
August 2, 1954, to the appellant, that he had a draft of
that letter and the same was written after consulting him.
The appellant denied that he received that letter. The
learned City Civil Judge found thus :-
"I am not prepared to hold that the copy
letter Ex. 4 was fabricated subsequently,
because there are references to the letter
dated 2-8-1954 in subsequent letters addressed
by the respondent to the petitioner."
But he held that the appellant did not receive such a
letter. The trial Court held that the letter not being a
copy of what was written the respondent to the appellant, it
could not be regarded is a secondary evidence of the con-
tents of the letter. But the High Court pointed out that it
was not the case of the respondent that it was a secondary
evidence of the contents of the letter written by her, but
her case was that the text of Ex. 4 and the letter written
to the appellant was the same; and in support of her case
she produced the letter from which she had copied out the
letter she had addressed to the appellant. Both the Courts,
therefore, held that Ex. 4 was the typed letter from which
the respondent drafted her letter to her husband.
Undoubtedly, Ex. 4 cannot be a secondary evidence of the
letter written by the respondent to her husband, but it
certainly corroborates her oral evidence that she wrote a
letter with similar recitals contained in Ex. 4 to her hus-
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band on the date Ex. 4 bears. As pointed out by the learned
City Civil Judge as well as by the High Court, the
subsequent letters written by her clearly demonstrate that
Ex. 4 could not have been fabricated subsequently and a
letter must have been written by her on August 2, 1954. In
view of the concurrent findings of fact, I do not think it
is necessary to consider the evidence over again. I accept
the concurrent findings that a letter dated August 2, 1954,
with contents similiar to those in Ex. 4 was written by the
respondent to her husband.
It is contended that the said letter was written at the
instance of the father and on his dictation to furnish
evidence in an action that might be brought by the appellant
against there spondent. Let me first take the comment,VI .
Z., would a wife write a letter to her husband in consul-
tation with her father? Ordinarily in the case of married
couples it is true that a wife would not write letters to
her husband after consulting her father. But the
circumstances under which the respondent wrote letter were
not ordinary ones. Here, there was trouble between the
husband and wife. The husband, according to the respondent,
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gave his consent, though reluctantly, for her to leave with
her father to the Far East, but soon there-after gave two
cables asking her to return immediately. Naturally she would
tell that fact to her father and seek his advice in the
matter of- replying to her husband. There is nothing wrong
in her father helping her to send a suitable reply, so that
the husband may not be offended. The second comment,
namely, that this ’letter was intended to be a shield
against a possible action by the appellant, is devoid of
merits. At the time the letter was written the Act had not
come into force and this letter could not have been an
answer to a possible action the husband might take for
restitution of conjugal rights. There was no particular
urgency for her to create evidence on that date against a
possible action under the Bombay Act, even if it applied to
her. This letter demonstrates beyond any reasonable doubt
that the wife did not desert her husband with the requisite
animus, but, on the other hand, shows her willingness to go
over to Bombay as soon as she regained her health. To this
letter no reply was sent by the appellant and he says in his
evidence that he did not
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receive the said letter. It is very difficult to believe Ms
statement. He is obviously denying the receipt of
this .letter a,,; it establishes that she had not the animus
to desert him. On February 24, 1955, he again gave a cable
in the following terms --
"Since your secret departure you not replying
my telegrams letters myself shocked you
wandering different countries leading reckless
life spoiling my reputation your most
disgraceful behaviour ruining my life."
This cable contains incorrect statements. Whether he
received the letter dated August 2, 1954, or not, admittedly
he had received the cable given by her. I have already held
that he must have received the letter dated August 2, 1954.
He imputes to her in this cable reckless life and
disgraceful behaviour. Where did he get this information
that she was leading a bad life? In his evidence he does
not say that she was leading any disgraceful life. There is
nothing on the record to show that the respondent was
leading a bad life, and indeed the appellant admits that she
was not even leading a fast one, she never danced, played
cards or drank, at any rate, according to the appellant,
from the year 1947. This cable must have irritated any
respectable woman. Yet on February 26, 1955, she gave the
following cable :-.
"Your allegation,% in your cable dated twenty
fourth not correct cannot understand your
attitude stop I have departed with your
knowledge with my father because of falling
health due to reasons you are well aware stop
keeping quiet life with my parents stop have
not received your letter only telegrams which
have been replied by cable and letter."
This reply is in subdued terms and it shows her respectable
attitude towards the appellant inspite of his provocation.
Therein she denies his wild accusations and restates that
she went with her father with his consent and that she had
replied to Ms cables by cables as well as by letter. On
March 4, 1955, the appellant gave another cable to her-
charging her with fabricating false stories. On March 3,
1955, before the respondent received the above cable, she
wrote a letter to the appellant giving a detailed reply to
his cables. Therein she denied that she was leading any
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reck-
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less life and told him that she was either with her father
or uncle and also that she did not receive any letters from
him. Then she proceeded to state :-
You know darling I being away from the people
who despise me, I have improved my health
considerably, I wish you could come and meet
me her outside that suspicious atmosphere and
you will know the real pleasure. I am very
lonely without you and my son Ashok who is
always with me in my sleep. I long to see
both of you and therefore I beg to come out
here.. Please do come and do not disappoint
me. You know in your heart that I love you so
much. This trip outside India will make you
good and we shall have a very happy life. You
are working so hard for your parents and never
think of me and your health which as I know is
deteriorating and I also know that you are not
happy. Darling, I assure you that this change
for few months will improve your health
considerably. You need good rest to think on
all your problems of daily life which you can
do only along and outside the influence of the
people who are around you. I hope you will
understand and at least come out here for a
change-for a short period. I shall do what
you want me to do, but please, darling, do
come; Please give my Charanawandana to father
and mother and love to Ashok."
This letter is criticized on the ground that it was another
attempt to create evidence at the instance of her father and
also on the ground that she asked her husband to come away
from his parents. To me this letter appears to be an honest
attempt on the part of the wife to reconcile with her
husband. It mentions his troubles and requests him to come
over the East not for any permanent stay but only as a
temporary sojourn to recoup his health and to enjoy a
holiday along with her. As I have already stated, by that
time the Act was not passed and therefore this letter could
not have been written to set up any defence against any
possible action by the husband. I find it very difficult to
see any sinister motive in this well meant reply to her
husband, and particularly after his cable attributing to her
reckless life. After dispatching this letter she received a
cable dated March 4, 1955, wherein the appellant attributed
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to her the conduct of fabricating false stories. To that
cable she sent a reply cable on March 10, 1955, denying the
said allegation and telling him that somebody was wrecking
their lives and asking him to come over to Hongkong. On
April 2, 1955, the appellant wrote a long letter to the
respondent in reply to her letter dated March 3, 1955.
Therein he chastised her for making insinuations against his
parents, who had done much for her welfare and happiness.
Emphasizing upon the word "pleasure" in her letter dated
March 3, 1955, he proceeded to state :-
"’Pleasure’! that, indeed, is the crux of the
whole problem. It is your perverted funny
notions of pleasure giving vent to your past
and present associations, both in India and
abroad, that are the root cause of all your
evil and irrational deeds."
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Pursuing the same idea, he observed:-
"Just remember my efforts all these years to
improve you and make you a happy and
contented
wife. It is a wonder that you find pleasure
in leaving home, leaving your husband,
wandering from country to country, leading
reckless life under the guise of being in the
company of your relations and uncles whom you
find readily available at every port. And you
have gone so far in this direction, that you
find yourself unable to break your past links
and get out of the muddle created by you and
seek pleasure and happiness in your own home
by being a faithful and devoted wife."
He did not stop with that, but proceeded to
state "....you have proceeded to Hongkong and
other places, in defiance of my clear
instruction to return And, in order to cloak
all these evil things you are now inventing
dirty excuses, evidently meant for the
consumption of the outside world whom you want
to fool, so that you may be able to justify
your disgraceful conduct and continue to live
your life of "pleasure" without let or
hindrance."
What is more, he told her that in her letters she had
fabricated false and malicious stories to cover up her
outrageous conduct for misleading the outside world. He
finally ended with the following words expressing his
determination to ignore her further correspondence:-
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"However, if you still choose to fling further
filth in my face by writing to me such letters
and telegrams, I shall have no choice but to
ignore and make no reply to the same. Inspite
of all my efforts, you have completely
deserted me and chosen the path of pleasure
and per-version at any cost. You are only
looking for same cloak to cover your guilt and
continue to live your life of degradation with
impunity. I refuse to furnish you with that
cloak and I refuse to be drawn in your game."
There is considerable argument on the import of this letter.
On behalf of the appellant it is contented that the contents
of this letter were nothing more than an emotional outburst
of a deserted husband and that the words used therein should
not be understood literally. It is argued on behalf of the
respondent that this letter did not mince matters in
attributing infidelity and unchastity to the respondent and
it communicated a final determination on his part not to
have anything to do with her. The former argument was
accepted by the City Civil Court, but the latter contention
had the approval of the High Court. Shah, J., after reading
the relevant portions of the document, came to the following
conclusion :-
Whatever may be the protestations made by the
petitioner in his evidence before the Court,
it is impossible to accede to the contention
of Mr. Jethmalani that his letter was merely
the outpouring of an anguished heart. The
letter in no unmistakable terms charges the
opponent with infidelity not occasional but a
persistent and chosen life of infidelity-and
also charges with inventing a scheme whereby
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she may be able to live that life of
infidelity under an appearance of being
respectfuly married. If after this letter the
opponent was unwilling to carry out the
petitioner’s direction and to forthwith go and
live with him, in our judgment, no fault can
be found with her."
Deasi, J., in his separate judgment wholly agreed with Shah,
J. Theappellant is a graduate and it cannot be said that he
does not know English. The terms of the letter indicate
that his standard of English is rather high and he has
sufficient vocabulary at Ms command. It is not necessary to
cover the ground overagain, as I entirely agree
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with the construction laced upon that letter by Shah and
Deasi, JJ. The expressions "outrageous conduct" reckless
life", "wild ventures", disgustful conduct", "life of plea-
sure", "past links", "relations readily available at every
port" and such others found in the letter leave no room to
doubt that the said expressions were intended to impute an
immoral and dissipated life to her. Whether he used those
words really believeing that. she was such a bad woman or
whether he used the wild language because he was angry that
she went with her father need not be speculated upon. What
matters is that he designedly couched his letter without
leaving any room for doubt in clear and precise phraseology
and told her that she was a bad woman and, therefore, he had
nothing more to do with her. To such an outrageous letter,
how did the respondent react? She must have been extremely
offended as any self-respecting woman would be. But she
controlled herself and replied to him by letter dated April
12, 1955 in a subdued and dignified manner. After repeating
that the appellant and his parents gave her consent to leave
with her father, she again repeated that she left with her
father to improve her health. She told him that her health
improved a little and that she would return to him and to
her son after sometime. Adverting to his fulminations in
his letter she said :
"I find it unnecessary to reply to the other
unfounded accusations contained in your letter
because I know and I am sure that the basis of
the same are your hallucinations, of what I am
not. I deny your charges all over again and
you know that they are not true. I believe
that the best way is to ignore them since they
are not based on truth."
She ended her letter thus :
"Please do not indulge in misgivings. As soon
as my health has completely improved, I shall
of course, come back home to you and to our
son. "
This letter shows that she was very much offended and she
was also sorry. She told him in mild words that all his
accusations were false and requested him not to indulge in
such things. She promised to come as soon as her health
improved. Here the arguments advanced by learned counsel
for the appellant may be noticed.
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Firstly, the usual argument, namely, that this letter was
written to the dictation of her father as a shield against a
possible action by the appellant, is repeated ; and second-
ly, this letter indicates that the false accusations made by
her husband did not so operate on her mind as to induce her
to give up her idea of coming back to him. The first
argument calls for the same answer, which I have given in
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the context of other correspondence. There is nothing wrong
in the respondent consulting her father, who any day was
more affectionate to her than the appellant could possibly
have been. There is no point in the second contention.
This letter clearly shows that she was highly offended by
the false accusations ; but she replied in a dignified
manner asking him neither to make nor to believe such
accusations. She should be unusual woman if she was not
offended by this letter. This reply reflects more her self-
control than her indifference or insensitiveness. This
letter, read along with the letter written by the appellant
on April 2, 1955, demonstrates that she was always ready and
willing to come back to him inspite of his accusations.
Some comment is made on the basis of the answers she gave in
her evidence in regard to the manner she got the contents
explained to her. Those answers were given in the stress of
cross-examination. Those could not possibly detract from
the admitted facts that she received the said letter and
gave her reply. The letter and her answers speak for
themselves. The ingenuity of the cross-examining counsel
could not add to or detract from either. So far as the
letters go, they proved beyond reasonable doubt that however
inadvisable it may be for the respondent to go to the Far
East with her father, she had not the least intention of
leaving her husband permanently. She was always ready and
willing to go back to her husband.
On April 8, 1956, the respondent returned to India. The
appellant’s complaint is that she did not inform him that
she was coming and that she did not come to his house. The
contention on behalf of the respondent is that after she
received the letter dated April 2, 1955, she was highly
offended and that, therefore, she expected some step on the
part of her husband to meet her or send somebody to take her
to his home. In her evidence she
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says that after she arrived in India, her father spoke to
two or three persons for rapprochement and one of them was
Kishinchand of Messers. J. Kimatrai and Kundanmal and that
her father told her that Kishinchand had a talk with the
appellant, but the latter refused to take her back. She
adds that after her return no efforts were made either by
her husband or on his behalf or by his parents to call her
back to his house and she thought that somebody would be
sent by her husband to fetch her from Poona to Bombay
according to the custom. The appellant admits in his
evidence that sometime in the month of May or June 1955 he
came to know that the Tespondent had returned to India.
Assuming that he was speaking the truth, it is clear from
the evidence that he knew of her return about a month after
she returned, but presumably he was standing on his rights
and prestige and did not move in the matter. It is
suggested to her that instead of going to her husband’s
house, in April 1956 she went to Kashmir for a holiday. She
admits that she went, but explains that her father’s
brother’s children had holidays and as they proceeded to
Kashmir, she also accompanied them. I do not see any
bearing of this Kashmir trip on the question of desertion.
If she was waiting for an invitation to go to her husband’s
place there is nothing wrong in her accompanying the
children to Kashmir. The respondent’s father says that
about 2 months after their arrival in India, he waited for
an invitation from the appellant, but as he did not move in
the matter, he met one or two friends of his to bring about
a rapprochement between the couple, but they could not do
anything in the matter. There is nothing unnatural in the
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father making the said attempts to bring about re-
conciliation between the couple. There is no reason to
reject his evidence in this regard. I shall assume that no
mediators were sent by the respondent’s father to, bring
about a rapprochement between the couple. Even so, after
the letter dated April 2, 1955 the husband, who knew that
the respondent had come to India, should have taken some
steps directly or indirectly to induce her to come to his
house. If he stood on his prestige, the respondent could
not be blamed, if after the rebuffs she received and the
adment attitude of the appellant communicated
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to her in the said letter, she did not take the first step.
In this context another circumstance may also be noticed.
The respondent and also her father say that in November
1955, a sister of the appellant was married but no
invitation was sent to the respondent. The respondent says
that this fact also made her to apprehend that she would not
be received if she straightaway went to the appellant’s
house. In the circumstances if she did not directly on
landing in India go to her husband’s house but waited for an
invitation from him, I cannot say that her attitude was
either unreasonable or that it should be attributed to her
final determination to desert her husband. On this aspect
of the case, Shah, J., observed in his judgment :
"The conduct of the opponent in not meeting
her son after she returned to India may appear
to be unnatural, but, if after receiving a
highly offensive letter from the petitioner,
she did not take an initiative to return to
the matrimonial home and waited for some
invitation from, or from some amends on the
part of, the petitioner, that conduct may not
be regarded as improbable or justifying an’
inference that she was seeking to continue the
state of desertion which had previously
started."
I am in entire agreement with these observations.
On the other hand the conduct of the appellant is telltale
and reflects his determination to discard her. According to
him he came to know that the respondent came to India in
April or May 1956, but a few days thereafter instead of
inviting her to come, he went to a lawyer for consultation
and thereafter filed the petition for judicial separation in
September 1956. It is manifest that he was waiting for the
statutory time to run out and soon thereafter he rushed to
the Court. The respondent, who obviously did not know the
passing of the Act, fell into his trap.
Pausing here, let me summarize the facts. The respondent
belongs to a fairly rich family. She must have been brought
up in comfort and with love and affection. She was not
highly educated ; she has read, we are told, upto sixth
standard. She was married to the appellant, who belongs to
a well-to-do family. The appellant is an M.B.B.S. and has
been carrying on the profession of a doctor in Bombay.
After the marriage, the respondent
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came to live in the joint family house of the appellant in
1947. There were misunderstanding between the parents of
the respondent and the appellant and the latter’s sisters.
The respondent was ill-treated, insulted and was not even
allowed to look after her only child. The husband, for one
reason or other, either because of his respect for his
parents or because of his weakness or because of both,
though at the beginning he was affectionate to his wife, was
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not able to stand up for her and later on he fell in line
with his parents and sisters and began to ill-treat her.
Though in the earlier years she was allowed to go to her
parents’ house now and then, later on the appellant and his
parents refused her permission to go to her parents’ house
or allowed her to do so once in a while with great
reluctance, when her father, on one of his infrequent
visits, was in India. She was not even permitted to go when
her uncle died. The appellant also contemplated a second
marriage, but, for one reason or other, it did not come off.
By the year 1954 she was in a nervous strain and necessarily
that must have affected her health. Her father, who came to
India at the end of 1953, heard her complaints and saw her
physical and mental condition. He did what a loving father
should do in the circumstances. Giving up the ideas of
false prestige, he approached the parents of the appellant
directly and through a friend and persuaded them to permit
the respondent to go to his house and thereafter to the Far
East with him for a short stay to recoup her health. The
respondent also took the permission of her husband. After
some time, the husband I am assuming that his version of the
visit along with Dr. Lulla, to Poona was true-changed his
mind and asked her to come back, but she refused to come
back. From her standpoint she obviously did not like her
husband going back on his word and disturbing her planned
holiday, to which she was looking forward. From the
standpoint of the husband, he was angry because as, a Hindu
husband he expected his wife to obey him whether his demand
was reasonable or not. The wife, perhaps’ did not tell him
the day when she would be leaving with her father to the Far
East. She must have been afraid that he would prevent her
somehow from going abroad. That explains her conduct
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in not seeing him or his parents at Bombay before she
boarded the ship. The subsequent correspondence shows that
the appellant was telling her from his commanding position
that she should give up her holiday and come back to him
immediately and she, on her part, was persuading him in a
subdued tone to permit her to stay for a few months and
promising to come back thereafter. The letter dated April
2, 1955, was an unexpected and unmerited blow to her.
Therein she was charged with unchastity and leading a fast
and reckless life. Even a Hindu wife would be enraged and
insulted by such dastardly conduct on the part of her
husband. Even so she sent a reply couched in a dignified
and controlled language denying his allegations and stating
that she would return in a few months. She was not even
invited by the appellant when his sister was married in
November 1955. She therefore, came back to India only in
April 1956. In view of the serious allegations made by the
appellant in his letter dated April 2, 1954, and in view of
his determined attitude disclosed therein, she naturally and
properly expected that the husband would invite her or send
somebody to take her back to his home. Instead of doing so,
though he knew that the respondent had come to India, he did
not make any attempt to invite her or send a relation to
bring her to his home as he used to do on previous occasions
when she went to her father’s house. By that time as the
Act came into force, he found his opportunity for which he
was waiting and took advantage of the situation. As the
statutory period of two years had expired from the date she
left India, he rushed to the Court. On these facts, I have
no doubt that the appellant failed to establish that the
respondent deserted him without any reasonable cause.
Even if she deserted him within the meaning of s. 10 of the
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Act, I would hold that by writing the letter dated April 2,
1955, she ceased to be in desertion from that date. A fair
reading of that letter, read in the context of her offer to
return within a few months, shows beyond any doubt that he
closed the door for her return long before the statutory
period had expired. When the respondent wrote to the
appellant telling him that she would come in a few months,
he wrote to her saying that she was leading
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an immoral life and that he would no longer be "drawn into
her game." Even after that letter, she wrote back denying
his charges and promising to come as soon as her health
improved. I have no doubt that, at any rate from April 2,
1955, the desertion, if any, on the part of the respondent,
came to an end and from that date the appellant was guilty
of desertion.
For the aforesaid reasons, I agree with the conclusion
arrived at by the High Court. The appeal deserves to be
dismissed and I accordingly dismiss it with costs.
ORDER OF COURT
In accordance with the majority opinion, the appeal is
allowed with costs here and in the High Court.